How do i make man eat me out more
He's just like "umm yeah maybe" and then doesn't do it
"Why you not horny?"
Should I withdraw blowjobs? I do it pretty much every time because all he wants to do is fuck and that's fucking boring. He's even kissing me less in bed. I cum after a minute so maybe I should just stop there and make him masturbate to finish.
Stop being childish. Dont make someone do something they dont want to do. I dont give my gf oral. She gives me oral. But even if she stopped I wouldnt do oral.
If you want oral express how important it is to you and ask his thoughts about it.
With holding sex is considered a form of abuse in a relationship and you shouldnt be surprised if he starts looking else where.
Also, one reasons why we dudes don't oral that often because takes a long time.
So, it might help if that there's a catalysis for your satisfaction, I suggest practicing kegels. Kegels will transfer more blood to your locus thus making it more sensitive and pleasurable- then you'll cum faster. Maybe then he'll be more wiling to eat you more.
Try talking to him about this. Find out if there's something specific deterring him. If he isn't willing to try and get you off, even after you've calmly brought up the issue and talked with him about it, you need to decide if this is a big enough issue to leave him. There's no right or wrong answer to that question; is sexual compatibility important to you, or does sex not play a huge role in your relationship to begin with?
pretty much that. wash up good, get him down there and communicate what works and what doesn't
you can lead your bf to your pussy, but you can't make him eat it (because that's rape)
>But then I'll be a slut
No you won't. Leaving your boyfriend because you weren't compatible is a lot different from sleeping with countless strangers
Kind of this. There are plenty of men out there that genuinely enjoy pussy. They don't seem to be as common, but I managed to find a good guy who specifically enjoys me sitting on his face
for everyone saying her pussy must smell, dont you think if you were desperately trying to get a man or woman down there youd shave and wash like crazy to make sure he or she has absolutely no reason to back out..?
OP if there's one thing you're leaving out then follow my regimen
I'm talking scrubbing, shaving every hair off that bitch, post razor cooling gel, lotion, perfume, then before presenting get your juices going so its shiny and glistening, presented in some cute panties.
then get some cute socks on to match those panties, get on your back, on the bed, legs as far over your head as you can get them, call him over, spreading pussy and talking in a little girl voice telling him to taste it
Oral sex in general kind of sucks. Blowjobs don't feel as good as regular sex. They hurt her jaw, No matter how hard they try, some uncomfortable teeth scraping occurs. I mean, if it was playing Parcheesi or getting a blowjob then of course I would pick the blowjob, but I would always pick sex over blowjob.
Anal feels good but too much damn work.
Stop being a pleb and have sex like god intended. If you need a guy to get his mouth bacteria down there and put up with your clearly unpleasant under-odours just to get off then either your pussy is broken or he sucks at sex.
>But then I'll be a slut.
You have the wrong mentality here.
Being afraid of being a slut is withholding you from exploring yourself sexually and keeping you in a relationship that perhaps isn't working anyway.
>I lost my virginity to this douchebag.
I don't think you really like this guy. You're probably attached to him because of losing your virginity and because of your fear that your self image of not being a slut depends on being with him or not.
Now to get him to eat you out, if you don't want to talk to him about it take this advice >>16754665
Put a towel underneath you (it will help with the clean image) and stare into him as you pour pepsi all over your pussy and put this song on. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ml0ySvrVd6o
Tell him to taste your soul.
>tell him to taste your soul
There must be a deeper issue.
I could eat my girlfriend's pussy for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.
But she gives herself Brazilian waxes weekly, has good hygiene, and a perfect vagina.
Either he jacks off to much, your pussy smells, is too hairy, or maybe he's just a wimp.
Withdraw sex and communicate with him about what is wrong.
Most of us don't care that you have a sexual history before us, the fact that you've only fucked one other guy (and he's a shitty lover) would be reassuring. As long as you aren't carrying any STDs and you wouldn't need both sides of a piece of paper to list your lovers, we don't give two shits (except moral fags, but who cares, conservatives are lousy lays anyway).
Personally, I hate fucking virgins. They don't know what feels food and what's boring or painful. I like a girl with a little experience who knows how to get off and get me off.
Now to your specific problem. There are a few reasons he might not be eating you out.
1. It's uncomfortable. I'll do it, but my jaw aches after a while. Not just uncomfortable, but it feels gross. Imagine a mucus that tastes like sour milk and pennies and you'll have a pretty good idea what your pussy tastes like. Add the sensation of having carpet in your mouth if you don't trim.
2. Cold sores. Lots of people have cold sores which can be transmitted to the genitals and become herpes. I won't go down on a girl if I have a cold sore.
3. Pussy Stink. Your pussy is a closed, moist environment. It doesn't take long for foul smells to grow in there, despite good hygiene. Make sure you keep it clean. I've changed my mind with a girl once or twice based on pussy stink.
4. Reciprocation. Try 69ing him. Might offer some encouragement.
Above all though, you need to find a clear way to communicate that you aren't happy with your sex life as it is. I'd suggest using your words before resorting to petty tactics that send the message you aren't sexually interested anymore.
Upon what are you basing this statement?
I can't argue, having never tasted a dick, but I'm highly skeptical to say the least.
>. It's uncomfortable. I'll do it, but my jaw aches after a while. Not just uncomfortable, but it feels gross.
Yeah, try holding your mouth open with a dick in it. Now, that's what I call uncomfortable.
Plus, then guys expect you to swallow that smelly, thick shit that fills your throat so fast that you actually choke.
1. Make sure your pussy is fresh and well shaven.
2. Make policy of 1 blowjob = 1 serious pussy munching session.
3. Be friendly about this, dont make scenes about this (they're total boner killer) and I hope that after a while you'll succeed in changing habits of your man.
Man, I have the opposite problem. I wish my girlfriend actually WANTED oral sex from me in the same way I want it from her. She's really self-conscious about her pussy for some reason, so cunnilingus would pretty much never happen if I didn't initiate it every time and spend 10 minutes reassuring her that I actually like doing it.
How do I get her to be a little more "dominant?" Is it possible? Or is this just the way she is?
The reason I can't just tell him I'm unhappy with the sex is because he's very sensitive to criticism.
>hey boy, I don't like it when you do X
>"omg i am such a terrible boyfriend"
>I end up having to comfort him
>I am the bitch for making him sad, since he's all happy in the relationship, complains about it to his friends
I'm not dominant about it at all either. What do you want her to do, what do you mean by dominance? How do you show her you want to be sucked?
Overall I think (and have read) that women are self conscious about receiving oral. Laying there with your legs open is an extremely vulnerable position to be in. Just think about all the slutshaming in the world, women are still not socially allowed to enjoy sex. This is engrained in us deeply in our subconscious. If you enjoy sex too much, your boyfriend might consider you a slut and leave you for it. I'm sure it must sound insane if you have no idea about this, but men still hold the monopoly on sex, and we feel like we are merely allowed to sometimes -maybe- get a taste of it, too. So you have to be 100% into it, show her how much YOU are enjoying yourself. It's hard for me to enjoy sex unilaterally, as I feel that sex is all I really have to offer to a man.
I guess I just wish she was a little bit more vocal about letting me know when she's horny and wants some attention, maybe some dirty talk while I'm down there. Nothing too crazy really, I just feel like I'm always the one to initiate sex, and it'd be fun to have a more spontaneous experience with her.
I definitely don't have any problem showing her that I'm enjoying myself, and she always seems to really enjoy it too once we do get into it. I wouldn't want to push her into anything she doesn't enjoy, but she really does enjoy it.
I guess I just want to make it all about her sometimes, since she does such a good job of taking care of me. And when I have to be the one to basically beg to go down on her, it feels like it's still "for me" rather than "all about her," if you know what I mean.
She can literally just Google it. Look at some porn. The basis is to just put in your mouth and play with it with your tongue, really. Tell her what you like: a lot of spit, playing with your balls, lots of licking, deep throat, sucking.
I L-O-V-E eating pussy!
I'll do it for hours until she literally can't move anymore. Waking girls up by eating them out is fetish of mine.
But, it has to meet certain criteria:
-No more then 2 days of being completely shaved
-Sorry, but I'm going down on anyone weighing more than 140
That being said, the last girl I was with liked it when I creamed inside her.
I felt horrible one night cuz after I nutted I just couldn't get it back up and this girl was the hottest chick I've ever been with. Literally a 10.
Next night for some reason I nutted a bit early, we had been having a LOT of sex lately and I knew I was already tired so as soon as I nutted in her I did something I thought I'd never do,
I went down and started licking her pussy that I just filled up with my own cum like a madman. She wasn't expecting that and she came fast and hard as fuck. Wasn't bad actually but I eat very healthy. She's probably the only girl I've been with that I would do that with thou
Do you think he's going to guess that you're withdrawing blowjobs because he won't eat pussy? Women always assume incorrectly men will pick up their subtle dumbfuck clues. Men never do.
Just talk to him about it. Next time you're going to have sex, shower, and then before you start, say "how about we try you going down on me". If he doesn't answer, press him until he does. Then say it's important to you to try, you really want him to.
If he still refuses, he's a selfish dick and you're never going to be happy.