Is receiving a blowjob cheating? In a LDR and some local chick wants to hang out all the time.
So what would you guys suggest me to do in a LDR? I love my gf to death and I'm afraid of her doing the same to me.
If you can´t handle the LDR, get out of the LDR.
I hope you guys have some sort of point planned in the future at which you turn your LDR into a normal relationship. "Eternal" LDRs tend not to work anyway, judging from my experience.
Sigh. Well I'm not sure what to do. I have a friend that lives in that area and he wants 50 a month to casually stalk and provide me updates. Is that worth it? I know it is but 50/month to maintain a LDR is brutal.
I agree with this guy
That's only true for some. One of my great loves and best friends to this day was an LDR, and it was no less intense and real than other relationships I've had.
Anon, you shouldn't have to do that. I think your paranoia stems from you wanting to cheat yourself. It really sounds like this is falling apart from both ends, you should end it.
Unless one or the other travels regularly to provide the emotional reinforcement that comes from really touching and sex then an LDR is a pseudo relationship.
This local girl may be the one you've been waiting for. LDR's seldom work out as thought.