>>16753118 I used a hooker one time because it was on my bucket list. It was a very nice experience. I used a website, picked a girl who I found sexy, called her, she gave me a hotel room to meet her in, and we had sex. She was very sweet, and I left in a great mood. It's a bit expensive, it was around 300-400 dollars. I'm glad I did it considering I was inbetween dating, and where I am now (married with child).
Just be smart about it, be polite, clean, and realize she's going to respond a lot better to you the more appreciative you are, you're not at an auto mechanic arguing what needs to be fixed on your car, you're having a stranger who never saw you before sucking your dick right after saying hi.
21, you can probably wait a little while longer to see if you meet someone "special" But losing your virginity is really not such a big deal (you will notice once you have lost it) So i say hell yes. Go for it!
I had a dryspell a few years ago (I went over 1 year without getting anything) Was on vacation, got a way too drunk, met a prostitute at a bar, and we spent the night together. And i have to say it was one of the most fun days/nights i have had. Easy in my top 10 list of good days in my 35 year old life.
Reason for me telling this, is that once i got home, i started getting laid again regularly.
I think females can smell desperation :p
So i only have positive things to say about paying for those services.
Well lost several other men, i lost my virginity wile i was way to drunk. (see what makes me do stupid things) To a girl that was way under my standard. IE too fat and did not even have a cute face. And i still look back at that day and think it was a fun night.
In a perfect world she would have been a perfect 10 and the love of my life and we bout would have been sober. Me and OP like in reality not in some Disney fairytale like you. Were if you just retrain yourself from all temptation something good will eventually come to you as well.
OP obviously have issues around women, he is 21 years old and still not managed to get a girl to kiss him. So getting it over with, will most lightly result in him relaxing a little bit around the female sex.
>>16753254 When you reflect about life you will think about the day you lost your virginity, the day you first tasted a woman and that should be a hooker? Explain please, how do you not feel shame in that?
>>16753273 Because if it was some other random woman who I didn't care about at the time of reflection is is no different.
>>16753272 There is no good reason beyond emotional gratification and spirituality that you'd do such a thing. If it makes you feel good than by all means. But chastity is no longer a virtue, it's not going to get you anywhere special with anyone. For most it is just a whole lot of stress and insecurity for a bunch of nothing.
Because there is no shame in wanting to be intimate with another human being. In some counties disabled people get funds from the state in order to hire prostitutes. Because human contact with the opposite sex is seen upon as a basic human need.
>>16753118 I did the exact thing a week ago. (Not kissless, though, but 29 yo) I found a fairly good looking Hungarian girl, arranged a date and went to her apartment. I never mentioned being a virgin, but I think she got that pretty quickly. She gave me a massage for 20 minutes, which led to hand/titjob/bj which was the best feeling I ever had I guess. The following cowgirl part was over after three minutes as you can imagine. After that we talked a bit and I left, not feeling ANY different. But I'm glad to have done it. Only problem is I now crave this amazing oily-handjob-feeling.
As a depressed guy with severe anxiety. No, I don't feel shame.
Its only shameful because "normal" people can get sex easily and they cant even comprehend an inability to get sex.
I was 25 when I lost my virginity to a hooker, It was good. It helped me move on with my life. People build sex up to be some huge important thing. But its not. Its just sex. It allowed me to look past sex and go after girls for their company and personality.
Also, why must we all feel we have to abide by social norms? Prostitution isn't hurting anyone (assuming they aren't part of some sex slave trade thing)
>>16753319 You meet one of my requirements then. To clarify I'm a virgin and I hope to find someone special but I understand why someone wouldn't want to wait after years of trying to find someone and constantly being sent the signal that you aren't good enough. When a whore doesn't care about any of that shit, is there for your enjoyment, and from what I understand some are downright nice as hell.
Same here, I've been browsing the AdultWork site recently and found two hookers that live near me which I could do. The thing is though I know I'm just entertaining the idea, it's not in me to do such a thing, yet. Maybe that time will come later but for now I haven't quite given up.
>>16753118 welp. I had my sex with the girl I LOVED like really loved and she was great and nothing went wrong and felt nothing but disappointment sex is overrated. I'd say it is the most overrated shit i ever encountered
Unless you're like me, a depressed, lonely, reclusive male approaching his 30s, you shouldn't consider it at all. It's fun for an hour but that's it. Money's not the issue really- your loss of dignity is.
I agree with several posters here. 25 and under is still very young and there's a good chance of landing a relationship if you work at it.
>>16753412 "Plight" lol. you don't have to be physically attractive for someone to want to have sex with you. it's my view that if someone has so little respect for themselves that they're willing to lose it to a hooker at age 21 they deserve the censure society is going to give them. because it is shameful lol. being 21 and a virgin isn't a fucking plight ffs.
I bought a hooker at 21. Best thing i ever did. All that stigma and frustration of being a virgin - gone. Finally I could go on with my life, it was amazing. Now I have the confidence to get girls for free.
20+ virgins - if you have the mindset of "waiting for that perfect girl" you will never ever ever lose it. Trust me! Get a grip of reality.
>>16753878 >if you have the mindset of "waiting for that perfect girl" you will never ever ever lose it. >as said by someone who couldn't wait past the age of 21 But please, continue to enlighten us with the profound insight into relationships you gained by sleeping with a hooker.
>>16753118 Some insight from someone who lost his virginity at age 19 from a hooker, it's not even bad IF you do it just for the sake of seeing what it's like. If you have some sort of precious outlook on the concept of virginity (lel, what is this, the Bible?) then you'll regret it soon after.
>>16753921 >my youth, my sexual peak This is a myth. Not only are a lot of people late bloomers, but most men come into their own sexually once their 20s are over and done with.
>>16753118 i did and i don't really regret it. I was 19 or 20 and "scared" of having sex with girls i liked. it made me realize sex really isn't that big of a deal, i could have easily gone another couple of years being a virgin but i didn't.
the one thing i will warn of is that once you get over the stigma of a hooker you probably won't just go once.
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