>be friends with this girl
>she's autistic and really unsociable, can't talk for longer about ten minutes about something that doesn't have anything to do with her wanting to kill herself
>tell her i can't deal with her constantly being so negative multiple times, but she doesn't get it, also she keeps blaming me for not humoring her all the fucking time
>finally decide to cut off all contact
>feels good man
>fast foward a couple days
>hear from mutual friend she's been talking shit about me behind my back
>apparently she already hated me while we were still hanging out
>she even told me things like "i'm looking foward to seeing you" while secretly disliking me and gossiping about me
I haven't felt this betrayed in years. I want to fuck up her life so badly, and I know this is not the way to go, but I can't get this out of my head.
tl;dr how to get over betrayal without resorting to revenge
Maybe it's just me, but that seems like such a bullshit excuse. I have social anxiety too and I'd never do anything like this. If she disliked me she could've just stopped talking to me.
Maybe you're not mentioning how you treated her like shit. Some people don't take that lying down you know. You should watch who you fuck with ho. Not all women are stupid cows like the ones you know. I'm better than that. I require an apology or ima fuck with your shit.
>Openly tell them you dislike them and cut contact with them
>Find out later they disliked you too
>OMG WTF HOW RUDE ET TU BRUTE I MUST BE AVENGED
You're a hypocritical dipshit, OP.
Shitty persons exist anon, regardless of autism or social retardism.
She seems to like attention, so she probablt can't think of nice ways to make people interested in her.
Get over it, and avoid her like the plague.
So if you're so fucking over it why this bullshit thread?
What was she "negative" about? Was she just reacting to you being an asshole maybe? Maybe she did care about your sorry ass so she was hurt and confused. Maybe you're leaving out a part like mayber where she cried and you started yelling at her for crying. Maybe when she fucks someone she feels unlike a whore.
I know this is supposed to be bait, but I am so confused.
Maybe you're the fucking problem. Maybe you think that women should just eat your shit and go away. Probably because you've been dating beta women your whole life. Alpha women don't take that shit from prison trash prostitutes.
Are you sure she's not simply bitter about you cutting contact from her?
Has she ever actually even attempted suicide? Because she sounds more like an over-dramatic attention seeker. She's not worth your time, even for revenge.
This. She's probably a bitter little shit who resent people for having no friends while she's being a fucking toxic waste of space. You never had to put up with her shit in the first place.
Get over it by acknowledging the fact that since she's this deluded about herself she'll probably stay friendless her whole life and pay no attention to the white knighting fags in this thread. Most of them are probably bitter KV who project too much because how dare you talk shit on a cute shy grill with social anxiety :[[[
Who cares? She's obviously fucked up. The only reason she's gossiping is to spite you for abandoning her.
She's a fucking retard, and the people who take the retard's side are also retards. Move on.
You didn't like her so why wouldn't she dislike you?
Anyway if what she is saying is lies and she really is a negative bitch then her other friend's will likely grow tired of her moaning as well.
If you are in the right (and she really is an autist and doesn't know how to manipulate people good) then this will sort itself out.
This is a chance to use your introspection to grow beyond this.
Sometimes you become friends with someone, then they become too dependent on you and you grow tired of them. Doesn't mean OP didn't appreciate her in the beginning, a few of my friendship ended like that (well no one was talking shit on anyone). OP did the right thing calling her out on being a shit and cutting contact instead of faking being friends with her any longer.