Does a guy liking only fingers up his butt will always end up wanting more ? Because I only like fingers, and wouldn't think about taking a dildo/strapon in my ass, watching pegging porn turn me off, but everywhere I look online, people say "give it some time", "you will start loving it" and shit like that.
I know I sound like a fucking neurotic, but it's my OCD
it's a slippery slope. fingers will become boring, you'll move on to bigger and better things.
don't go down that path if you don't want to do "gay" stuff, the pleasure sensations from anal sex have been known to be addictive to some people. i read an interview with an ex gay porn star and he said that he could go celibate for months but after one anal sex or masturbation it was like the addiction started full force again.
seriously speaking, if you don't want to end up dildoing your ass in your spare time, just stop playing with your ass entirely.
I've done this for years and I've never wanted to take a dick in my ass
I think I'll do that, when I watch pegging porn, I feel nervous as fuck and as soon as I feel a sensation in my penis and it makes me freak out, I honestly think it's my OCD acting up
Shit, the more I read myself, the more I realise I sound like a fucking mental case, thank god for this place, I could never tell that anyone
sounds nice. i'll keep that in mind in case my finger doesn't cut it anymore. always wanted to peg him anyways. but we'll take it sloooow. no need to whi out the strapon as long as he's happy with one little finger.
There is nothing wrong with it I guess,as I've said before, it must be my OCD.
I'm not homophobic or a judgemental person,I don't think a guy into anal stimulation is gay, and if a guy tells me he likes getting pegged, I won't care (not like it's my business anyway), but I just don't want to become like that, just thinking about it it makes me feel like shit
>Obsessive–compulsive disorder (OCD) is a mental disorder where people feel the need to check things repeatedly, perform certain routines repeatedly, or have certain thoughts repeatedly
Explain how this falls under OCD please
>>Obsessive–compulsive disorder (OCD) is a mental disorder where people feel the need to check things repeatedly, perform certain routines repeatedly, or have certain thoughts repeatedly
what the internet thinks OCD is and what OCD actually is are two wildly different things
e.g, that bowlcut kid that shotup those old black people likely has OCD after reviewing some of his writings(constantly debating with himself, going from liking black friends to wanting to kill them for no reason due to uncontrollable obsessive pulses etc)
Sigh.. no one knows anything about OCD. There is a subset of OCD known as 'Pure-O', as in purely obsessional. It's exactly the same as regular OCD but the compulsions are mental (making 'Pure-O' a misnomer). Compulsions in pure O often manifest as checking for arousal, ruminating, justifying why you aren't sexually aroused by something repeatedly to the point of insanity, looking over memories for 'early signs', doubting yourself constantly, etc. etc.
Pure-O usually revolves around the fear of being gay, a pedophile, transgender, incestous (or other kinks), harming others, being a sinner. The possibilities are infinite.
It doesn't have to be that extreme (there are sexual obsessions linked with unfaithfulness/being cheated on or just "uncommon kinks"). In my head that would make me a deviant and simply a person I don't want to become
To be frank. putting fingers in your ass is considered deviant but that doesn't really matter because nobody knows you put fingers in your ass.
There's you, and then there's the you that others perceive you to be. So if they don't know you put fingers in your ass then you're not a deviant. And by extension, putting anything bigger than a finger won't make you a deviant either
If a girl sucks your dick is that gay? no, because there's nothing inherently gay about getting your dick sucked, just like there's nothing inherently gay about putting something in your ass... by a girl no less.
well, since it would be somebody of the same gender giving you sexual pleasure, yes i would consider this to be a gy sexual act (not that this would be anything bad). but if a girl is pegging you it's clearly heterosexual.
problems to put a label on it start with traps.
I think I used the word deviant wrong
I'm fully aware of that, and I certainly won't go telling anyone that I like fingers in my ass, but I've accepted that I like it, I would see myself asking my gf to try that, but imagining myself asking her to peg me, even if she agrees, it just makes me sick to my stomach
OCD is an internal conflict after all, so the others don't really matter
Letting a girl do sexy stuff that a guy could do is ungay.
There's nothing wrong about wanting to sit on this.
Take it slow - it's warm, inviting, and will make you feel good.
Using your fingers is relatively strenuous and tiring. Sitting on this is natural and easy.
You won't regret it and you won't look back. When you do it for the first time there won't be anything left to worry about because you've already done it.
Do the right thing.
i started with assplay when i was about 15 years old, it started with a finger, then two, then the handle of the vibrating gillette razor.pretty soon i would look for things around my house to put in my ass as increasing the size of the object increased the pleasure.
finally when i was about 19 i bought "adams vibrating cock" from adam and eve and a "doc johnson" 8" jelly dildo. i would to fuck myself senseless with that vibrating dong till i blew fat loads.
eventually i started getting curious about how my cum would taste. i started licking up my precum and it dripped out and would even lick up the actual cum that would come out preorgasm. once i blew my load i would be disgusted but in that moment i found that it enhanced my pleasure.
i eventually began looking at sissy porn on gif to further enhance my pleasure and began imagining myself ridin a real cock to enhance my pleasure. well im 27 years old now and still ride.
i realized that every escalation was about "enhancing my pleasure" while doing the deed. ive stuck some pretty big things in there in the past but only a few times. now i dont really masturbate a lot since i have a steady gf but if we go like a week without sex i need to get off anally as i feel its a lot more intense that regular cumming.
be careful OP, its a slippery slope
You can be gay, or bi, without being a boy living faggot. There's nothing wrong with it, and your phobia of being a homo makes it obvious that you think you're either gay, or you're not. It's not that simple, you like what you like, and certain things may fall in the box labeled as "gay" but these are just society's labels. Honestly man, who gives a fuck. You sound like a self conscious little pussy. Learn to not care. What are you afraid of, that God will see?