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My (soon to be) ex wife is filing an emergency child custody order on me. All she has on me is a bunch of texts where I lost it at her for paying some dude to see his dick, a bunch of bank statements that suggest I'm an alcoholic, and hearsay from friends that I did a bunch of heroin and crack when the breakup happened (i did).

Is that enough for her to get the custody order?
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could be, yes
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Contact your local MRA
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>for paying some dude to see his dick
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>>16728261
Dude, if she wants custody, she has it by default. All the devious shit is unnecessary.
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whats an mra?
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>>16728278
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Are you saying I could use that against her? I dont think i can
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>>16728269
yo what do you mean by "local mra"
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>>16728322
Mensrights-help.com
An example Google men's right then your location if you contact them they should be able to suggest a lawyer.
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>>16728261
Charming.

Is there any chance that neither of you end up with custody?

Seriously? Heroin, Crack? Spending tons of money on booze when you have a kid to think about?

Why don't you make an effort to become a better person and see if she doesn't decide to let you see your kid then?
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>>16728365
due i already have made that effort. I dont do any of that anymore and I barely ever drink. Answer the question or fuck off. This thread isnt for moral boundary arguments wtf
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>>16728387
You didn't provide any context. This is an advice board, not a tell-you-what-you-want-to-hear board. Going purely off that list, you're not fit to be a father right now and your wife is absolutely right to file for custody. That list might not be a fair representation of you, but it's all you gave us.
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>>16728392
Umm ok, I guess i can bore you guys with dribble.

I'm 28, she's 28. I make 13 an hour as a restaurant manager, I worked her through college to be a midwife. She makes like 45k a year. She left me right aftger she got the job.

I raised her son from another man from when he was 6 months old until he was 6. I quit my job so that I could watch our kids so she could do her internship (we had money saved up at that point plus she got 1k a month from "retiring" from the military after being in it for a year. She was released for mental health issues (I dont know what).

I don't think any of this is really that relevant and I'm not sure what you want me to expand upon.

I'm a fully functional 28 year old and I have a 27k a year job, an apartment, etc. I just want to know how far she can go with this. I live in VA if that is relevant.
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OP here

I'm not sure if that was clear but I raised her son from a previous marriage as well as our son that is now 3
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>>16728407
>>16728411
You should talk to a lawyer about this anon. Also don't do drugs if you care about your kids.
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Whether it's enough or not is only really pertinent to you preparing yourself mentally for what happens. You need to get a lawyer, grab any evidence you have of her infidelity ( the dick thing) and basically whatever you can use for ammunition.
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courts are usually pretty reticent to disallow parents to see their children, but drug + alcohol use might just do it if you're a danger.

Other than that, it's impossible to say. Go get a lawyer.
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why did she leave you?
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>>16728451
she has some mental issues, including seasonal personality disorder. But I really don't know the real reason she left me, she never really explained it, although I was a lazy shit and didn't do enough around the house. Once she got her new job (that I worked for years to get her) I kind of went into vacation mode. I never did anything to her. But I did lose it and refuse to let go the whole "paid to see a dudes dick" thing.
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>>16728426
>>16728432
I can't possibly afford a lawyer. I lost my house, she had all the income once I left my job for her, and I only make 27k a year. I don't even have furniture yet, I can't pay a lawyer 300 bucks an hour right now
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Tell her to drop it and agree to visitation/shared custody and you will not ask for spousal support
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