I find women to be extremely stupid compared to men. For every whenever I see a woman being involved in somethin I just automatically assume a man would do it better in every way. In my life this was confirmed 9/10 times.
Now, I'm not really glad I think this way, but I just can't control it.
When I was thinking about it, I remembered one thing.
Could it be that I consider women dumber more useless than men because I've grown up in a family with an abusive father that always insulted my mother whenever he could?
I can tell you as a male engineer that women are surpassing men in STEM these days, easily. The only general problem I have with women are a lot are fast to criticize when there's better ways to solve the problem, and that doesn't really apply to them all.
In reality you're just living in a fantasy world inside of your head, assuming women are dumb because you're so insecure about your masculinity which ironically makes you dumb because it isnt an attractive trait of yours.
I've seen men and women both do dumb things, how about you go into the real world and talk with real people and then you'll realize how dumb you are.
It's a possibility that you've learned from your father's abuse towards your mother.
You can't stop yourself from thinking that way, but as long as you recognize those thoughts are wrong and take no action based upon them, it's fine.
you are not really wrong though
if you look at chess and many sports that don't required physical force, men usually dominate them
at sports that require physical force women don't even have a chance
if you look at the great things humanity has done, most of them were accomplished by men, but that's partly because of oppression and different roles in society though
That's just how evolution has made women.
All they have needed to do in order to survive is to find a good man, so why would they develop other skills?
Although I'm a female, I'm not really offended by what you are trying to convey. it is a well known fact that we are all products of our environment and experiences, including us. More specifically, our parents play a large role in shaping our impressionable minds up until adulthood, and often for a great period afterward. Since your father viewed women as inferior beings, and had no qualms about expressing this through mental/emotional/physical, it is likely that he conditioned you to feel the same way. It ay not have been apparent to you in the moment, but you now see that his actions had a unfavorable effect on you. Raising a child in a hostile zone, where abuse of any kind is seen as an acceptable occurrence, is simply disgusting and should be condemned. Your father may have contributed to your skewed world view and percepetion of women, but this can all be changed with minimum effort. You have mentioned that whenever you see a man and a women doing something, you automatically assume that the man can do it better. This isn't always true, so let's start with breaking that pattern. I would like you to attempt the following, and analyze how well this might work for you
> Approach these afformentioned situations as if gender is virtually irrelevant.
I'm not saying that you should completely disregard gender, because that would be ludicrous. I'm only trying to help you understand that it is not the main factor to be considered.
>Ask yourself, "what's each person's skill set?". If you know a bit about the inividuals involved, then you can make educated guesses or informed coonclusions about which person would be more suited for a specific task.
>Adopt critical thinking skills, and use this link to get an indepth understanding of exactly what that means.
I kindly urge you to reject the unfair, ingrained, and irrational prejudices that might have placed upon you at an early age.
I hope you understand that women in the olden age foraged for berries, looked after young, cooked food. As in they did shit, these women did nothing at all because thats the cast of women they decided to choose. It's a controlled environment, amusing but controlled.
>whenever I see a woman being involved in somethin I just automatically assume a man would do it better in every way
Isn't this the definition of gay?
>See two chicks making out
>Think men would make out better
>Could it be that I consider women dumber more useless than men because I've grown up in a family with an abusive father that always insulted my mother whenever he could?
Gee I wonder