I'm an Indian girl who is completely insecure. I never felt beautiful in my life and I don't think I ever will. When I show people my insecure side, they would always tell me that I look exotic and I'm "cultural" but they are of course just being nice. I've read a lot about people's preferences on a lot of sites, mostly Reddit and 4chan, and I want to kill myself. No one finds brown girls attractive. A shitton of comments I see are, "I'm primarily attracted to white girls" and whatnot. Nobody has ever said they find Indian girls with brown skin attractive, hell, most people seem to hate India from the bottom of their heart. Some white people I've met treat me inferior, but for some reason, I think it's justified.
I hate dark brown skin. I hate girls with dark brown skin. To me, all of them are ugly, because I've been taught to worship fair skin. Most Indians that I know only seem to blend well with Western people mostly because they look more Caucasian than Indian, and are attractive light-skinned girls. I frankly think I'm scum. Ugly brown girls have no place anywhere, hell not even in my own country, and I want to kill myself.
As someone relatively young, the mere fact that I have dark skin is eating away at me. People have never thought of dark Indians as attractive, and they never should. From a country in which society demands girls to be light-skinned and pretty, I'll never be thought of much. I feel rejected by my Western countries and my own. Everyone thinks I'm ugly and since the world is full of beautiful women with light skin, I'm literally nothing.
I'm inferior to everyone. I'm trash, I'm worthless, and don't deserve anything. Brown girls are not pretty or intelligent. No one knows how I feel, because they never bother with me, so I've never confessed these feelings to anyone. Hopefully, I'll do something positive one day by dying/disappearing soon. As a westerner told me, "No one wants you ugly brownies."
I just wish that I was the pretty, pure girl next door. Blonde, white and tall. At least the world would consider that to be "true beauty". Nobody genuinely finds ugly brown girls attractive. I hate this so much. Fuck.
If it means anything to you OP, as a dude I don't find white blonde girls attractive.
My current crush is an arab girl, and she's the most beautiful girl to me in the world right now.
Listen, all that stuff is in your head, you're built a monster in your mind. There are people who are legitimately ugly, have physical deformities and are just born unlucky, but some of their get through life with their heads high, and people magnetize towards them because they feel good about themselves regardless of how the world sees them.
You need some mental training, I'm sure you are a very pretty girl.
maybe start embracing your looks instead of working against it? look at pics of gorgeous indian girls instead of gorgeous light skinned girls?
There are plenty of attractive brown girls. I'd probably go for latinas and indians a lot more frequently if they existed in any number where I live.
This kind of feels like a bait thread though.
Not to be a downer but your I can see why your insecurity is legit. Almost every professional setting has a tall, white blonde girl with a position of power.
They are like the alphas of females. Even if they aren't the most popular look among your average man, something usually makes them tick to a position of power.
Halfrican male chiming in. People generally prefer their own race over others (which wasn't the case with my parents, but still works as a general rule). It doesn't help that places like 4chan think that everyone who isn't white or Japanese isn't worthy of human dignity (In my case, I'd be described as a half bred monkey, and you as a filthy backwards fool). There's been times where I've despised the fact that I was a minority, but ultimately nothing comes from it except feeling sad often.
In the 200,000 years of human existence, only in the past 10,000 has there been civilization, only 6,000 years of writing, about 500 years of anything resembling globalization, and only about 50 years of advanced telecommunication. If we're trying to justify every human accepting one another on a timescale of only a few decades, in comparison to the majority of human existence where people spent shitting in caves and getting chased by leopards, I don't expect much to come of it. But eventually, times will change. Eventually, racial stigma and prejudiced hatred will be seen as a waste of time. Not today, and not tomorrow, but someday.
Until then, please don't hate yourself for the way you were born.
Jesus christ just embrace what you are and if not just kill yourself or leave
And I want to be Chad Thundercock with blonde hair and blue eyes. But sadly I'm a kv and shitpost on 4chan.
Boo- hoo, what a sad world we live in.
As a Brown guy I completely get this sentiment. Hell, from ages 12-20 I hated my skin color too. But then I realized I was wasting worrying about shit that really shouldnt be worried about. Who the hell cares that you don't appease to someone's aesthetic tastes. We only get 1 life in this world, and every moment, every second you are slowly approaching your graves. You don't have time to waste on that bullshit. Just live life and see what it gives you
I have to disagree with you as a white man that finds "brownies" beautiful. I love the contrast of color when we hold hands or touch. What makes a woman beautiful is not the color of their skin though as much as their comfort in their skin.
Don't for a second believe that you are inferior in any way because you have dark skin. The inferior ones are the people who believe that they have to make beautiful women feel inferior so that they can feel superior.
Stop browsing /pol/ and start embracing yourself.
Listen, regardless of your self confidence there IS an incredible amount of people who do find Indian girls extremely attractive and that's a fact, period. I literally just searched this but there are at least 6 subreddits dedicated to nsfw Indian girls(let alone all the ones dedicated to non-Indian brown skinned girls), r/IndianBabes has 39k subs where r/Blondes only has 22k and I know plenty of people that don't really like your typical "true beauty" blonde girl(myself included) like >>16719286 said, go look at beautiful dark skinned girls instead.
Blonde??? Are you fucking serious?
I would get it if you said a sex-oozing freckled redhead, they gave priests blue balls so big they preferred to kill them in the inquisition.
OR, even better, full black hair with a delicious dark brown for the skin to fully complete the boner-inducing look of absolute beaut... Oh wait! BUT YOU ARE!
Fucking faggot, real life is not Disney, this whole generation grew up being bombarded by "whitest is bestest" propaganda and racism is more disgusting than ever right now as everyone is "against it" but no one realizes the extreme amounts of ingrained racism at every corner.
I have a softie right now and you didn't even post your fucking picture.
Fuck, I just wish western European girls had a darker skin average... [spoiler]if you live around these parts we could uh... discuss racism together?[/spoiler]
I'm white, I don't like pale or blonde girls because they remind me of bitches in high school and family. Neither one I'd be interested in dating.
Dark haired, dark skin girls are hot.
To be honest I think that brown women are the most beautiful people on the earth, irrespective of which country you are from.
But I have a feeling that that they, brown women, want to be lusted after white guys, they ignore any approaches by their own kind.
I know that from what I have seen.
Personal I lust after the darker brown women from Sri lanka, Nubians and yes, you lovely black women.
Your problem is not that you have dark skin, your problem is that YOU don't find your own dark skin attractive due to insecurities.
If you were buying a product and the seller wasn't sure it was even worth would you fucking buy it? People WILL see that in you. Stop worrying about how you're not white and start worrying and working on your self-confidence. Not once have I met a guy who would tell you no just because you have dark skin. Also, don't go to /pol/ anymore and you probably won't find them either unless you have a habit of searching every basement around the neighborhood or something.
>Stop browsing /pol/ and start embracing yourself.
The nets is transparent so gives way to all sorts of shit. /pol/ is an example of extreme opinions marred with shit posting.
They say the subcon absorbs most things, pay attention to such threads and out start believing it.
Coming from a male... I think women of all ethnicity are beautiful and you really shouldn't be ashamed of your skin and wish otherwise... Everybody is different, and everyone is attracted to different people, this includes people of different races and different cultures. It's also a generalization to say people hate India and Indians, I don't believe this is entirely true or fact.
You just need to embrace your differences. Also acknowledge that Hollywood's obsession with the 'classic blonde hair blue eyed' female makes many females self conscious and victim to the belief that in order to appear feminine, make healthy children, look sexy, become successful, and etc, you must look like this to some extent, or like this in totality, also don't forget many males feed into this idea, and because of the medias influence this is many males neutral and default preference, blonde and blue eyes. I think this could be a western thing... This is being played out everywhere and it's entirely illusory. Don't become a victim and believe that in order to be and feel beautiful you must be something other than yourself.
I BEG TO DIFFER.
In the /Soc/ ideal mate threads, there was one Canadian gentleman I saw a couple months back who said he dreamed of finding a black or Indian Woman, saying 'tfw no qt brown gf to cuddle with'
You have one. There are more.
Go get them.
The problem is that you probably only want to date white guys too. People tend to find their own race the most attractive and that's just life.
Sure you'll come across some white guys with jungle/yellow/taco/curry/etc fever, but you'll always just be a fetish to them. Although girls only want white men as a status symbol, so it cancels out I guess.
I work in retail and Indians almost always have a peculiar stink about them. They're always friendly, even if they don't speak a lot of English. I've never met any truly mean Indians before, no matter their age. Indians are very polite and friendly. And I really like their different head bobs. Some of them are like bobbleheads with their body language sometime. For the record I do know what their various head bobbles mean.
I hope Opie takes this to mind. Indians have their merits. Their women are always so beautiful. Even their children. Especially with earrings, jewelry, and dresses. Just a question, What do the red dots mean? On your foreheads
>I've read a lot about people's preferences on a lot of sites, mostly Reddit and 4chan,
>No one finds brown girls attractive.
I don't think you've done enough research.
This anon has platinum taste.
>Red hair + freckles is godtier
>Dark skin or raven hair is a close runner up (The biggest shame of humanity is the fact that it's basically impossible to be a dark skinned firecrotch)
>Varying shades of brown hair
For many people, the 'ideal woman' image has been pushed so hard in our cultures that it's had the reverse effect, and looped back around to becoming almost unattractive. You need to realize two things: One, that not every person in the world thinks the same, or has the same standards of beauty. And two, if you want other people to love you, you'll have to learn to love yourself first.
Also, pics when?
Actually, there's going to be a blowback to the current radical liberalism. That you niggers are gonna go back and chains.
I want to feel sorry for you, but frankly I can't see room for a soul when I look into shit-colored eyes.
See, yeah I've dated Micronesians and Hispanics with various colors of brown but I've never been attracted to an east Indian or Paki.
They are even hairier and more prone to obesity then Hispanics. They just reek of bad genetics. I was reading 50% of the people in the middle east are inbred.
How about you post a pic OP? That way we can tell you the truth.
Why are you spamming like every thread with "drink more water"? It's actually kind of hilarious. You don't gotta stop or anything.
You know it's a myth that we're all running chronically dehydrated, right? You don't need 8 glasses a day.
Yeah, the 8 glasses a day thing is a total myth. People who drink multiple bottles a day end up overworking their bladders, and will probably end up paying for it later in life when their kidneys start screwing up. However, most people ARE still dehydrated though. In our modern society, most people are drinking sugary juices (or worse, soda) in place of water, which is, y'know, pretty awful. 2 glasses of purified water a day is all you really need to keep you healthy and refreshed, but the main point is that people should have more than 0 glasses of water a day.
Water works miracles. I dont think I am spamming, I'm only kindly reminding. It is my advice.
Not everyone is dehydrated of course, but people forget that you should drink some every now and then.
While I'm on the subject, have you had any water today pal?
The color of your skin doesn't determine anything of importance to anything, ever. To think otherwise is...stupid. Start valuing your positive qualities and share that with others.
Skin bleaching is really popular with black and Asian people. The ingredient that works the best (I think it's hydroquinon or something similar) can cause cancer, but there are safer alternatives that are almost as effective. I used to use kojic acid soap, then cocoa butter.
>white women everywhere spending money on tanning salons, artificial tans, going to the beach to get a tan, etc
The problem with women is that you all think your insecurities can be solved through some external change. The problem is in your MIND, not the color of your skin.
>implying brown girls aren't best girls
If they're really really asian nah I can never get past those eyes ergh they creep me the fuck out.
If they're asian but not heavily I'll give her a chance but I'd rather white chicks.
Any time somebody posts some shit like "only weeaboos like Asian girls, they all look so weird" I assume they're a fucking shut-in themselves. Yeah, god, we know, some people on here can get pretty loopy over Japanese culture & their idealized notions of what Asian women are like, please stop overcompensating to avoid association with them.
Some Japanese pop culture is fucking stupid, some is pretty fun, some Asian girls are kinda ugly and some are cute as all hell, and amazingly enough you can be attracted to the cute ones without liking anime or whatever. Thoughts like this don't even occur to normal people.
for what its worth, i find non white girls more attractive than white girls on average. i have never been with an indian girl, and i would definitely jump on the opportunity to try it out. regardless of how you look, unless you are completely hideous and deformed, someone will be attracted to you.
As a girl you have to know you'll never be happy with yourself. Girls are experts in finding flaws in others and on themselfs of course.
Why do you think girls with straight hair curly their hair and viceversa? Why do blondes dye their hair to be brunettes, and brunettes bleach their hair? And what about the tons of beauty products girls use?
Once you accept your skin color, you will find another flaw.
That's it, I like you.
I hereby grant you the trip name of "Hydro".
Welcome to /adv/, buddy.
So.... Is OP going to say anything?
Anything at all?
Our army grows
You have been busy
Welcome to the dark side
Shit, man, don't do it.
[spoiler]I've been water-posting all day because of you, and I drank a bottle of spring after reading up some dehydration facts to better validate my shitposting.[/spoiler] Let the upcoming wave of water-posting flow naturally. Don't ruin it with a trip.
Vegeta is shit
go back to /r9k/ with your spoiler shitting
Let me ask you why are women always hyper critical about small things
>Sure you'll come across some white guys with jungle/yellow/taco/curry/etc fever, but you'll always just be a fetish to them.
I hate this mentality.
Seriously... what's the difference... if that's the case, shouldn't liking your own race be it's own "fetish" too?
Maybe, gay and straight are both just "fetishes".
Maybe no one likes anyone really other than because of "fetishes".
Go fuck yourself.
I mean, holy shit, maybe I've had some bad experiences with my own race, and found that other races are just more friendly and accepting. Maybe I'm more comfortable with others.
But naw... must some some sort of sick, sexual thing goin' on. Fuckin' prick.
I understand how you feel. I want to be a bear. Life can be so unfair
I wish I knew you, femanon.
Im sure there are others out there who feel the same way.
I think if you find what you love to do and do it with passion and enthusiasm you'll begin to feel better about yourself. That happened to me. When i began feeling better, women noticed me. Funny thing is, i really wasnt thinking about them so much!
DUDEEEEEE I WANT TO BE A BEAR TOO. FUCKK. We need to make this happennnnn
and to OP. Theres nothing you can do. Your stuck with your body. Some people are luckier in this life. There will be a guy out there that will love you unconditionally, I can guarantee that. Theres someone for everyone.
Let's be honest, while white girls can be beautiful, Indian girls can be too just as much. There are so many beautiful Indian girls that I see. The advantages you have over white girls:
>You guys don't age as badly
>Your hair is lovely, shiny and thick whereas white girls tend to have thin hair
>Exotic looking skin that guys fantasize about
>Beautiful shaped eyes
>Longer eyelashes than white girls
If you use all those to your advantage you'd be a total hottie. My dark skinned friend from Mauritius gets more male attention from me and I'm an Arab girl with super white skin. It's all depending on the person and how they carry themselves not their race or skin colour.
Lol, my Aryan-ass sister gave herself reptile leather mole-y ass cancer skin to try and be brown. I have no idea what you look like, but I think dark skin is gorgeous. Prone to fewer blemishes, the blemishes that do show up aren't as noticeable, no ugly freckles (I have nasty booger-brown freckles all over), beautiful thick dark hair, teeth look white as fuck no matter what, you don't get all red when you exert yourself for more than thirty seconds--it's all good shit.
eye bags super obvious
disappear on a sunny winter day
dark body hair on white skin is disgusting
Basically shut the fuck up, if you're ugly it's not because you're delicious brown.
>Βe with female friend
>We discuss about skin color
>She is cute and olive skinned.
>"I hope the guy I'll have children with will not be as dark skinned as I am because then the children will be like fucking dark skinned"
such is life is golden dawn ruled greece ;___;
Are you actually 'ugly' or just average?
Older anon here. 38. I've dated, fucked, fooled around with, and been in relationships with pretty much all colors of women.
Word of advice to you femanon. MEN who know the value of a woman don't look at skin. Manchildren and boys do . You need to change the kind of people you listen to and gravitate towards. I will take a delicious brownskin average girl who has a great personality, genuine intelligence, and passion for her hobbies hands down any day of the week over a 10/10 white lily with nothing upstairs.
There's nothing wrong with the color of your skin. If you're a filthy NEET then the problem is your habits and lifestyle.
White women can look pretty fucking beautiful (red heads with green/blue eyes and freckles HNNNNGGG) but I also find beautiful Indian women to be just as exotic, and I love brown skin and black hair. I love that Indian accent everyone makes fun of, I love brown nipples and pussies. it looks like tasty chocolate to me. The point is, whatever shade of woman you are, there is someone out there that will drink your bathwater. Focus on your positives and learn to be comfortable in your own skin. You'll NEVER be a white woman. Live with that reality and instead focus on learning to love yourself as you are, because whatever race or gender you are, quiet confidence in your own worthiness is fucking attractive.
My girlfriend is Chinese. I'm not Asian but it is not and was never some sick fetishism. Hell we didn't even have sex the first year we were together.
Believe it or not, but sometimes human beings of other races get together because of personality.
Get that toxic progressivism out of conversations about self love
enjoy your fucking rice rat jabroni
I'm a guy w/ blue eyes and dirty blond hair. I think I'm a pretty good looking guy. That being said, I prefer most types over white tall blonde girls any day. When I look at family pics, I see (mostly) blondes. Blondes are boring to me. I associate blondes with family pics.
Give me a dark-haired gal over a blonde any day. You're beautiful OP =)
Hell no, that would be way to tiring. Trying to get attention while simultaneously seeming aloof. Trying to get dicked well, while also not seeming like a slut, even if it's only in my own eyes. And wanting to fuck his brains out, but being afraid when I do, he'll just bounce after...AKA trying to manipulate him into committing. Poor womans.