I'm 23 and have only been with 2 or 3 guys ever. Whenever it happens I never really expect it, so I never shave or wax or anything, it's just whatever has grown since the last time I shaved/waxed for comfort.
Do guys have a preference of how much hair they want *down there*? I think it'd be nice to know. I'm comfortable with anything but I'm not sure how guys feel about it in general.
it's not a big deal. i mean, i won't sleep with anyone i'm in a committed relationship with so the last thing i care about is pubic hair. that said, when a guy has really long hair or a girl does, bjs/eating out does mean hair gets involved. and for sex, if i had to choose 1 i'd say trimmed or shaved means more skin touching vs hair touching but like i said, i don't sleep with someone i'm not in a serious relationship with and pubic hair is worth 0% of my concern... unless we start having sex regularly and she wants/i want to eat her out a lot. i imagine the same is with a bj, you'd rather suck/lick what you're going after than what you're going after + hair. 1 or 2 times though, who cares.
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I've been with a fair few guys (and a couple of grills, they didn't give a shit) and only a couple of them didn't care that I hadn't shaved, the rest wanted me to have little to no hair. One guy even flat out told me that he wouldn't sleep with me unless I'd just shaved.
My bf of 2 years doesn't really care but very much prefers when I'm clean shaven when he goes down on me, only because he hates the feeling of hair in his mouth, which I understand (I don't like it either, and he normally trims his pubes really short and shaves his balls).
I normally shave every 2-3 weeks. My bf will still go down on me when I hit the 2-3 weeks, but he doesn't really enjoy it and has asked me to shave around that time. He has said though that of course he'd still go down on me, just not as often.
I don't really give a fuck because I prefer having little to no hair anyway, it's just a bit of a time consuming pain in the ass having to shave. I've thought about waxing but I'm kinda scared of the pain.
First and foremost, if I like you, you can have a jungle or a baby pussy down there I don't give a fuck. By like I mean... I look at you and we have a fucking moment and then I find out your personality is hot to match and it becomes "how do I get in her ASAP?" as opposed to "where's the exit?" like I am with most conversations with women.
But barring that level of attraction, I am going to need it to be trimmed up. If you want me to eat it more than that first night (and you will want that), then the smoother it is = the more it gets eaten.
Pube tangles get in my teeth. Not a fan.
I'm a dude and I have a preference for no trimming or shaving. I want to be really clear that I'm not a hair fetishist or anything. It's just my preference.
I don't like the shaved look because I associate it with porn stars. I don't have anything against porn, but I tend to gravitate towards amateur or niche stuff; the sex in mainstream porn is so mechanical, almost sterile. I remember liking it back when I was a virgin (or at least not having anything else to compare it to) but now that I've actually had sex, I want to feel like I'm fucking a regular person, not a porn star. The only other mental association I have with the unshaven look is, like, prepubescent girls, which is obviously the opposite of sexy. Pubic hair is a secondary sex characteristic; it's a sign that someone's healthy and mature enough for me to be having sex with them. Oh, and waxing (aka literally ripping hair out by its roots) could not possibly horrify me more. I don't want to be made to think about that shit any time I'm supposed to be having sex.
Trimming isn't terrible but I just don't love the way it looks or feels. It can be prickly, I don't like the way it makes the hair look all fuzzy, it's just kind of icky. And yes, I've gone down on totally unshaven girls, and I don't know what these other guys think they're doing, but I can't remember ever ending up with hair in my mouth. That shit just doesn't happen.
Obviously, I'm in the minority, though as far as I'm concerned all the guys who are actively repulsed by hair on girls are creepy fucking douchebags.
Well, that was the least sexy post I've ever written about sex. Oh well.
Is no one going to state the obvious? Most porn star shave everything unless the have red or blonde hair so the majority of people find less more attractive. But sex is sex. If you're not hooking up regularly than don't waste the effort doing a Brazilian everyday.