Girlfriend and I dated for two years, broke up for a week, been back together for a month.
She hooked up with a rando during the breakup and lied about it until I bluffed about him telling me about it. Technically "not my business" but, fuck, that fast? That unapologetic?
Should I be fucking pissed or am I being a babby
She lied. it probably bothers you, judging by the fact that you posted about it, so you don't appreciate that behavior. Later on, she may do similar things.
Some guys don't care, and that's fine, too.
But for you and the way you feel, you're justified. The wisest thing would be to avoid further damaging issues and cut her out, and go on to find someone who won't do that shit.
Isn't it quite fast after a break?
You had the answer already. Trust me she do it once she can do it again. Because you in her mind is not that deep that's why she can move on that fast.
I would be livid and extremely upset personally. That isn't cool at all of her and pretty shitty. Technically not cheating, but technically still pretty shitty.
I would move on, personally. That is very not okay and it doesn't seem okay to you either, so stick to your morals and do what you feel is best.
That's not about she fuck or not fucked by another dude. The point here is she move on so fast and now she wants to comeback. He is her comfort zone no more. Bet she'll break up again after months when she found out another dude.
Doesn't mean it isnt really fucked up and doesnt display a complete disregard for her feelings towards him and their two year relationship. I've gotten out of a few long term relationships and every time I never felt any desire for anything with any girl for a long time afterward. Most people are like that. It's unhealthy behavior and overall just shitty as hell. Says a lot about her feelings.
Don't ignore anger or other negative feelings. They are warnings that you are being trespassed, some how, some way.
Follow your feelings. Move on. Regain your dignity. I can't stress this enough: Even though you were apart at the time, it was a shitty thing to do. Protect yourself, man.
I've posted this a million times, but girls break up different then guys.
Girls deal with shit little by little, as it's happening.
With guys it's more like it happens when it happens.
That means when it comes to breakups, by the time the girls break up, there's this case where the girls been over the relationship for weeks before it actually ever happened, so they second it happens, it's like whatever I'm over it becuase I've been dealing with it for weeks.
The guy breaks up, then they have to deal with it all once, all at that exact moment.
You were broken up. She's got absolutely fucking nothing to apologize for, except for lieing to you (but even... the fact that your THIS butt hurt about it suggests maybe she had a good reason)
Friend of mine broke up with his gf for a really short period. She "accidentally" fucked another guy (she broke up with him) and after that escapade wanted to get back together. He accepted. I was like..whatever you want dude. He's a cool cuck :/ Like why did he? Reason she broke up was...to fuck him...like...wtf