Is an red flag to being a pedophile if wherever you are around a little girl, around the kindergarden age you get and urge to take off all her clothes , or you want to see her naked? Or is this not concerning and its probably just a phase of sorts ?
Yes, it is a red flag, but the fact you know it is 75% of what you need not to do anything about it.
There's a lot of people who have these fantasies and who never EVER do something about them. I do, and I have nieces, I've babysitted and so on. I've never done anything untowards and I don't think I'd be able to, but I know the fantasy is there to me.
Just, keep it to yourself and never act out anything, no one needs to know but yourself. You can do it, you can lead a normal life while fighting the impulses, it's not impossible. It's all you.
it is an urge many people have, but they feel it's "too low" or "too bad" for their little entitled asses' reputation to recognize they do. just try to never act on it, and PLEASE don't get yourself into anything ilegal (it's extremely easy to do so online). it is a difficult fetish to have, since it is so frowned upon by society, but the truth is sexuality, no matter how deviant, is also part of human nature. wish you luck. if it's too much of a heavy load on your conscience, get help from someone who can actually help you get through it irl. cheers.
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>Can't make eye contact with a woman?
We can help you, everyone's been there.
>Obsessed with undressing babies?
Into the cellar you go, Quasimodo.
That and people don't really like working to change themselves. If you like children, then you're probably going to remain that way. Hence why you're a lost cause, nothing personal.
What if you have acted on just not in an extreme way? Say , when you were young er in highschool and you babysat your 5 yr old niece . While doing so you tickled and played with her , but really you had more of a sexual intent to it.
That's still fucked up, but again, each person's intentions are their own, as long as outwardly you're doing nothing untowards. Maybe someone sexually gets off of of shaking my hand when they say hello in public, but if the handshake was normal and they make no mention of it, then there literally is no harm done, the way I see it.
Tickling her and playing doesn't seem bad as that's what any other person would do. What matters about pedophilia and such isn't you getting pleasure out of it, it's you fucking up kids' lives and so on, and in that particular case I don't see how any of that would happen.
That IS bad, you don't know what she actually remembers....obviously don't do it again.
And don't access child porn online. It's illegal. You'll get caught ang go to fucking jail, where they hate child abusers.
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