Girl at school called me vain. How do change her opinion of me? She thinks I'm vain because I'm going to get laser treatment for mind acne scarring.
Should I tell her that I've had acne for 10 years and it's caused me psychological distres? Maybe opening up will get her to change her opinion of me?
I'm also always well dressed and well groomed and conduct myself in a manner that exudes confidence (thanks adv). So naturally I get female attention. She's jealous of this one girl that's been giving me lots of attention lately but I really only want the first girl. All she ever does is tease me about girl 2 and told me I'm promiscuous, which I'm not. I've suffered from social anxiety for a long time
honestly OP, people who are so quick to judge any form of plastic surgery aren't intelligent enough to think these things through.
they just parrot the general opinion that plastic surgery is bad because of vanity. And I bet my ass she wears make up and dresses up all nicely and shit when she goes out or wears push-up bras. That's vanity as well, but people don't judge that like plastic surgery because it became so widely popular.
You can try to change her mind, but just sayin' people like that are usually too stupid too understand.
She has everything I'm looking for in a woman and want to spend more time with her.
Lol I think she was wearing an Apple watch. Vain bitch. Here I am with my 2 year old htc one.
But in all seriousness, she's extremely intelligent (book smart) and very modest. She never dressed slutty even in 100 degree weather. She always wears pants so I think she has low self esteem.
I've invited her to grab lunch after class and she said she had something to do. Aside from that we ocassionally text about school work
I have not spilled my spaghetti that I like her yet but if she wasn't so dense she would've caught on already. Unless she already knows and is playing me
Don't tell her about the psychological shit. Don't tell anyone you haven't known for a long time about psychological shit.
Ask her out again. If she says no, write her off. There's just no way to be certain and at some point, you just have to let go. Pursue others.
How bad is it.
Tell her theres nothing wrong with fixing damage. Youre not changing your appearance you are reverting it back to how it was before you were scarred. Like how a burn victim gets skin graphs and tries to look normal again.
Dont listen to him. Plastic surgery is one of the most vain things a person can do.
Personally I take a no psychological shit policy when it comes to revealing things, but it depends on your relationship. If she'sjust doing it to be mean or something, fuck what she thinks. If it's some kind of genuine concern, tell her the scars bother you enough to have this procedure done.
Either way, ask her out. If she says no, she's not getting further than friend status.
You exude confidence, but you don't have any obviously. This girl is giving multiple red flags, but you're too oblivious to notice.
She's judgemental and seeing how far she can manipulate you with words. Later when you have sex, the manipulation will get worse.
Another flag is jealousy. It's not cute to be jealous of other women, especially when you're not even in a relationship with them.
With her jealousy is also bitterness or resentment towards women who show their body.
Her "intelligence" is just book smarts, however she'll use it to put down or judge others who aren't as smart as her.
If you want this poisonous person in your life then don't get your scars fixed, stop talking to her competition then proceed to give her your balls.
I started with no confidence and now I'm like at a 50%. I can easily chat up any girl I see and know how to carry a conversation. I'm a lot more confident when the weather is cold like now because it helps keep me cool. You're right though, I still lack confidence and she probably can see that and is trying to make me insecure.
I know she's a bitter person towards other more attractive females and she's jealous as well, but for some reason, she's the one that makes my heart flutter when I see her, or the one I'm hoping it is when I get a text message.
I think she's doing it to try and put me down so she'll feel better about herself and hold the power in our friendship.
When would I ask her out again. I just asked on Wednesday. I said I was going to grab lunch down the street if she wanted to join and she said she had something to do and didn't offer and alternative. Then tested me an hour later asking where I went and how the food was.
It's pretty bad around the temples and cheeks. People tell me it's not bad but I think they are just being nice. I agree that plastic surgery is vain and I am a little vain because I always want to look and act my best. It's just that I don't have the confidence to go to school in sweats like many other people. I care about my appearance.
All women hate women more attractive than themselves anon- this is how woman judge their self worth.
Guys have a diffrent scale for their self worth- some guys use $$$. Some use pussy, some use deadlifts, etc.
Women only have 1- and when they meet someone that does that 1 thing women care about better than them? Boy does it boil their blood!
I remember my first girlfriend, in middle school, was this girl that was so pretty, all her friends bullied her, picked on her, - really, tortured her.
It was obvious she was going to be a beauty even then- and her friends *hated* it.
Holy fuck dude get some self esteem. Yes, of course if she rejects you once that means there's no chance. God damn dude move on. For you to be this worried about what one girl thinks of you is ridiculous. You'll never be happy if this is how you live your life.