Hey guys. Last week I bought this really nice, expensive vibrator for myself. I keep it at my boyfriend's apartment since I have roommates and the buzz is loud, so I can't use it at home.
Anyway, I thoroughly expressed to my boyfriend that my new expensive vibrator is NOT FOR BUTT STUFF.
>Bf openly loves butt stuff, sometimes I stick things up his pooper during sex, all is good
>He has his own dildos for this
>I told him not to put mine in his butt
>Don't even put it in my own butt
>I keep finding my vibrator in places I did not leave it
>Bf says he likes to put the vibrator against his balls while jacking off
>I am skeptical
>Pretty sure he's butt fucking it
>He denies everything
What do I do, /adv/? I don't want gross ass bacteria all over my toy. No matter how thoroughly it can be cleaned :(
I... Why has it never occurred to me to stick one of these against muh balls while I jack it?
Eh... Let him stick it up his butt... XD, even better, stick it in his mouth next time you're over. Ask him if it tastes like butt...
Confront him about how you really can't trust him regarding this object which you own.
Perhaps you would feel safer if you come to the conclusion that you'd prefer he doesn't use it at all, not even on his balls if you're not with him. As much as a relationship is about "sharing and caring" it's also respecting borders. This toy is yours, and even if he was your husband you have no obligation to share it with him.
I love magic wands myself, but with the money they are worth it's important to know you are the true wielder. But if he's even able to ram it up his ass I'm impressed. They are not designed for that stuff, our beloved "massage wands".
Break up with him because he's not only a closet faggot, but he also does things that you've directly expressed to him that you don't want him to do with your stuff and he has no problem lying to you about it. He doesn't respect you or your stuff and he's a queer.
>my boyfriend owns multiple dildos which he shoves up his ass for pleasure
Even if he's telling the truth, you're upset with him because he didn't ask you before borrowing your stuff.
Tell him to ask you before using your stuff. To be fair though, he may just be very dense and not learned about respecting people's property in kindergarten. Which is why I would recommend giving him one last chance.