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I'm just sitting in my room when all of a sudden I remember how soul crushingly lonely I am. My housemate has left for a few days and I get socialisation at work, but I'm fucking /lonely/
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>>16685796
Ask a friend from work to see a movie with you?
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>>16685800

it's like 10pm, and the only person i'd be comfortable with from work is in another city right now, huh.

got the radio on so it sounds like there's another human in the room with me at least
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>>16685796
Watch a comforting tv show and make plans with a work friend sometime later this week?

You can't fix your life 10pm on a Thursday my friend, just relax and enjoy yourself
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>>16685823
I suppose I have something planned tomorrow anyway. It's not so bad in the short term. Long term I don't know what I'm doing.

Thanks.
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Go to bed, wake up early next morning and do whatever it takes for that day to be productive so at 5pm you can say 'fuck it, I'm done' and hang out with friends later. It's Friday night at that point after all.
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>>16685853
I'm working (early) tomorrow like I did today. I just kinda miss physical comfort. I can't really get that from work friends.
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>>16685796
I went out and did shit
I currently do martial arts 3 nights a week and dance lessons 1 night a week and attend running club 2 nights a week.
90% of life is simply showing up, go out and find something to do
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>>16685854
Do you live in a major city?

Volunteer at a hostel as a guide or something, I made so many friends from deciding to do that honestly
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>>16685861
I don't have the time. I'm at university and I work part time, and have societies and things. But I've got terrible intimacy issues that I can't seem to get the fuck over. So, yeah, I'm surrounded by people who enjoy being with me, but I can't get that physical comfort. I just want a big ol' hug.
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>>16685856
Oh I do all that. My life is very busy and I'm always with people. I'm just lonely and it gets emphasised when I'm alone.
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>>16685796
I imagine ways of cleanly killing myself.
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>>16685914
This.

What if you have no friends to make plans with?
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Last year when I started hugging my second pillow when I slept
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I idolize anime antagonists
:^)
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Fap.
That gets rid of the curshing loneliness for about a week for me.
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not to hijack OPs thread but i often wonder why nobody bothers trying to reach out to me. i never get a text message or an email or anything out of the blue, my band which meets once a week keeps in contact to set up scheduling and my girlfriend and my parents, but thats like 5 people. i wonder if it's just laziness or something. i don't really have facebook or anything so i understand its harder to remember i exist but i just feel like nobody cares about me. i have been seriously suicidal for the past 6 months and only a handful of people including my most immediate family have ever asked me how i have been in any serious capacity, meanwhile i always try and reach out to people i know well but havent seen to see how theyre doing, even when i meet up most of the time we talk about them, i wonder sometimes "maybe they have the same feeling about being lonely i do", but i doubt they have to convince themselves to not commit suicide every day like i do. i know there's no answer to this i just feel like venting about how lonely i am.
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Get guinea pig named Rupert.
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>>16686014
You have a girlfriend AND a band, what the fuck are you complaining about?
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