Hi adv, I am an assman.
Show me a female's ass and if my dick approves it gets hard and I approve, too.
And it does it very rarely, it is so bad that I want to play with someone's butt.
But not any butt, butt one that belongs to one whom I like and can imagine spending some long time together.
Surely, this is somehow obstructing me seeing other women.
Women who might like me, or even approached me and I just couldn't see, because I am also a dense man who is trying to be less dense and also be able to look beyond the mountains I wanna hike.
How do I deal with it?
Or how do I use it to my advantage and get more out of my dating life?
I don't see any problems, here. No shame I'm not dating flat ass girls if that's not what you're attracted to.
Go in for the booty and get to know them after.
Unless I'm completely misunderstanding the predicament
i don't see a problem either.
i found out about boobs-and assman a few years ago and i find it rather amusing to find out which guy is whch type. it's normaly pretty obvious.
your concern is what? that you knowingly diminish your dating-pool? so what? erybody has preferences. it's totally ok to wanting a thick ass.
No, you understand it correctly.
None the less, I see not enough opportunities for dating because almost no one has the right composition of muscle (if any) and fat (too much) to make me attracted to them.
I mean, have you ever seen a woman with a nice ass but she has fatwings under her arms or the fat sploorges over her back?
it is a dilemma for me.
ah. then date a gym-rat. or get a gf and work out with her. also, some cowgirl-action is an awesome as-workout. i know, i got a lot of doms from that.
and get her some yoga pants. even rather small asses look worship-worthy in them
I am already in the process of taking care of my body, so that sounds like a good opportunity.
And yeah, there are some powerpacks I see in the college sometimes. Maybe I should get to know them.
Also, any iidea on how to approach a woman in a group?
Just approach them by being my confident self?
i'm sorry anon, ijust ffel like getting to know a girl is superior to "approaching" them. as in "you see each other so,eti,es at the gym". or that girl in your class. or that friend of a friend of yours. it's always the better option. look out for girls like that.
if you strongly feel like you would regrett not talking to that one girl then go for it! but don't make it your default pick-up- technique. and don't go to clubs. assuming you don't just want a ons.