Why is kissing so much more intimate than sex?
My fwb never wants to kiss but she has no problem sucking my dick.
Do most girls feel that way, that kissing is more intimate?
>tfw haven't kissed anyone since I was 15
>can't remember what it feels like
it feels good, right?
Maybe she's worried that it seems too romantic. As a girl, I can tell you that I want to kiss more than anything. It seems so tender and innocent.
Kissing is something deeply ingrained in us. Even animals put their faces close to each other and lick each other's mouths/faces as a sign of affection.
meh, if i have sex, i kiss. anything else is acting dumb. i mean, how would you even into foreplay when you can't make out? that seems like a bad porn to me.
other than that, yes, kissinng makes things more intimate. sometimes when i fuck with my bf, he comes in for a kiss from a hard fuck to be able to cum. just beacause in the end, what we enjoy most about sex with each other is the intimacy and closeness.
I was googling the other day "how to kiss" just incase it happens anytime. I ended up kissing my closed fist infront of a computer screen and realized how fucked I am
Do you learn how to kiss with experience or do people know it naturally? 22 year old kissless virgin here
Yes it comes with experience. I thank my 13 year old girlfriend every time a girl tells me I kiss good. It's like riding a bike once you learn, when you are put in the moment you will know what to do.
>there isn't much you can do that is wrong
Not exactly true.. I watched lesbian porn before I made out with a girl for the first time. I copied what I saw in the porno, and it was gross Tbh. Don't kiss like in lesbian porn. It's too hardcore
don't kiss like in porn in general. those people only smash their bodies together for money. how intimate and loving can it get, huh?
try to tune in on the person you kiss and enjoy the sensation and intimacy. that's all you need to know. no "technique". i never have applied any technique and everybody i have ever kissed told me i kiss amazing.
Kissing is just awkward to me. I think I lack sensitivity or have nerve damage in my lips or something. Cause they are not very sensitive. They are about as sensitive if not less than the back of my hand. So the few times I have kissed girls it just seems awkard cause I can't feel what to do very well. So I make the kissing as brief as possible
>i mean, how would you even into foreplay when you can't make out
This is how it goes 90% of the time with my fwb
>Wanna hook up?
>Turn lamp on overhead lights off
>Get naked whip my dick out, she's in panties and bra
>She straddles my leg and sucks my dick.
>Tell her to take her bra off, she does
>When I'm almost going to cum I tell her to get on her back
>Pull panties off and chow down
>Put condom on and penetrate
>Fuck missionary, maybe kiss very briefly definitely not making out
>She gets on top
>If I Don't get off she'll go doggy
>I'll go till I cum or tell her to suck my dick, sometimes cum in her mouth
>Lie in bed a few min, get dressed, talk about work or something, leave shortly after
It goes like this 90% of the time. I don't think sex ever started with making out
We banged for 2 years like that
I gf'd her on Friday, we had drunk sex then morning sex similar way to I described
Last night was the first time we had sex which started with me kissing her and I definitely think she enjoyed it a lot more
kissing isn't more intimate than sex, you can just get carried away in kissing and start creating the build up. like if you kiss while you're dick is in her that's going to be more intimate than kissing without a dick in her.
theres a line with kissing tho, like you sorta have to feel your partner out if this is a hookup or one night stand thing. if she doesn't want to kiss it's probably cause she doesn't want to let herself get into you or maybe just wants your dick only.
Cant tell because its different for each girl. Some say they cant stand being in a sexual relationshio without feelings or they need comimment to have sex. Others prefer it cause its practical and they just need to satisfy their need for pleasure. It depends...
In 4 years I had like 2 fwb, one was for like 3 years and the other for 6 months until I met my boyfriend.
The fwb thing is a microcosm of the "90% of women go after the top 30% of the men". Often times the male fwb partner has multiple other female fwb partners as well. Shit sucks but women have this part of life on easy mode.
I'm a girl. I have a high sex drive, and often initiate sex. I love blowjobs and general things that involve my mouth. BUT, you just made me realize that I hate making out. Everyone is different. But a lot of other girls I know hate making out as well.
Dude are you literally me?
Now i'm 21 and am afraid that i don't knwo how to kiss properly (or kiss at all).
I'm so fucked up i'm thinking to hire a prostitute to let me refresh my memory about kissing and also to give me tips about sex.
Any anon has some tips to on what to do if i'ts since i was 15 that i had a girlfriend?
So much fucking degeneracy it is disgusting.
I have mixed feelings. I would say kissing is more personal for me because it means I'm interested in more than just fucking. In a one night stand situation, I'd rather avoid oral sex all around.