I'm actually in the exact same situation, OP. Fell hard for a female friend who's in a long term relationship that I had to see for minimum 4 hours a day due to our class/study schedules, and most of that time was spent alone with her studying. I started getting pretty bad anxiety and feeling down all the time. Eventually I think I even fell in love with her, and that really made everything worse. The whole time I just maintained my normal persona around her, but I don't know how long I could have kept that up. What eventually saved me from the situation is that she left to study abroad recently and I no longer see her and I rarely contact her. It's pretty hard even now. The only thing you can do is pull back on how often you see her and try your hardest to find someone else. Something that sort of worked for me was making a list of her faults. Whenever I start missing her or thinking about her too much I just pull up the list and read through it.
>>16683070 >Or (and this one takes a lot of emotional maturity) accept that if this person were really as perfect as you imagine they are, they would want to be with you. Not OP, but I haven't thought about it from that perspective before. I think you might have just fixed the thing that's been bugging me for the past four months.
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