Girls don't make great friends. They aren't as funny, committed, or inventive as guy friends. You're doing the right thing for now. You might not believe me, but it's true. Just look at what you do for fun and compare it to what girls do.
Just like you do with guys. I have some male friends. We met through school, common interests, common friends or online. We talk about common interests, joke, talk about our lives. We watch tv shows/movies together, do stuff related to our hobbies, go out for drinks or dinner and sometimes travel. Really, super normal shit. They never flirt with me, I never flirt with them. We're super relaxed around each other.
>>16681078 So your girlfriend is kind of boring and you extrapolated that to all women. Please don't do that in the future.
I've been with my fiancée for four years. She's gorgeous, kind, communicates well, and her interests include most of the stupid geeky shit I'm into, which we can talk about for hours, as well as a few all her own (she's really into improv and takes classes, which is whatever to me, but I'm glad she has it as a creative outlet.) With a few modifications that describes most of the women I'm lucky enough to have in my life. Not a one of them is vapid or lacking in interests beyond shopping.
I'm sure your girlfriend (fiancée?) is a wonderful person, and I'm not criticizing her, but if you've never known any interesting women, the common factor here is you.
I am surrounded by women. I've dated many, fucked many, work with them, etc. around the world. French women. American women. Australian women.
They are so so so boring as a whole. Their humor sucks. For every 1 that can hit a decent jump shot, make me laugh until I can't breathe, help me survive in the wilderness, Or help me move furniture... There's 10000 that bore me to death.
To the engaged anon, your fiancé sounds boring to me. You guys talk about geeky stuff and that's supposed to impress me? Talking? Get back to me when she learns how to infiltrate the mafia, or if she decides to race motorcycles for a living.
Women get jealous of my girl- she's beautiful, well off, and she's been to all the major world landmarks. Other girls are intimidated by her. Despite all that, her favorite thing to do is fall asleep, eat, or take selfies.
Most girls that do 'guy shit' are homely. It's reality, people.
>>16681289 Yes, I'm sure one of your criteria for your male friends is that they have to have infiltrated the mafia, or be a professional motorcycle racer. Are you actually a troll?
You're not a rock star or a secret agent, sorry. You don't pick your friends that way. You pick them because they're fun to hang out with, smart, witty, funny people who have interests they're willing to share. Some people pick their partners that way too.
Big yawn. If this is a guy I'm speaking to, your estrogen levels are through the roof. No I'm by a spy, but one of my hobbies is to build and race motorcycles. That's a whole lot more interesting than sitting on a couch and talking to a girl about 'geeky stuff'.
And no I don't pick guy friends based on just that. But how many girls have been an asset to your basketball team? How many have helped you lift a washing machine onto a truck? How many, in comparison to other guys, have made you tear up from laughing?
ALL my friends do two of those things, I have never met a woman that does all 3.
OP if you want to talk about feelings and geeky stuff, get a female. If you like doing other shit, find guys.
Btw, that other post was some anon agreeing with me. I usually respond by typing long winded shit.
>>16681289 >For every 1 that can hit a decent jump shot, make me laugh until I can't breathe, help me survive in the wilderness, Or help me move furniture... There's 10000 that bore me to death. Well that sounds kind of sad. So you've actually met girls who you found more interesting but settled for one who bores you to death instead? Settling isn't the worst thing, but that kind of sounds sad.
This is a bit true through my years of experience. I'm gay, but all of my good friends are guys. I find girls to be EXTREMELY flaky. The quality of friendship is usually very poor compared to guys and never as fulfilling and can feel one-sided.
None of this is to say that you can't be friends with a girl. Just don't expect it to be like your bros you can hit up or hang out whenever.
>>16680920 almost all of my female friends are the girlfriends of my guyfriends. they come and go, my guyfriends stay. but men do I have a great fucking time with those girlfriends! I can like.. talk to them about anything, and having all these pretty ladies around me attracts more to me aswell. I think it's the best "other sex-friendships" there is
This. I don't have any female friends but my friends gfs are cool to chat and hang out with. If you're a decent guy you could probably get them to hook you up or introduce you to one of their friends too.
Met a girl. She's the best friend ever. Not anything like you're describing, dull and such. She is... amazing. So amazing that I've fallen for her. This probably won't help my marriage out much, but oh well.
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