I'm 24, cute girl from okcupid texts me and seems interested, she's 19 though. Since I've tried dating girls my age and older with no success, I was thinking of just cutting right to the chase and fucking her, but would that be wrong?
I do want a relationship. But starting off with a date just isn't working for me. Everyone here and friends tells I'm doing it wrong and I just need to fuck them first instead of being nice and taking them out somewhere.
Your age/2 + 7 is the youngest you should go for without it being a bit weird.
24/2 + 7 = 19. Perfect
But yeah don't lead her on. If you just want to fuck, then tell her. At that age girls are really naive
5 years isn't a whole lot. My fiances parents are 10 years apart.
I would say it only becomes an issue when you start crossing between generations. Maybe around 15 years it'd start getting weird.
Fucking her first is stupid as shit when you're looking for a relationship. She'll forever in the neck of her head wonder whether you'll do the same or have done the same to other girls. It may sound cool at first to have her think that your some kind of playboy, but it gets real fucking old when she keeps questioning your intent, feelings, and actions while you're trying to convince her that you really care about her.
Don't go by that stupid rule. Do you like the girl? Does she like you? Do you want to date each other? Is she legal? Then do it and don't give a fuck.
As you get older, age gaps continuously get less and less weird, but a 19 and 24 year old is really nothing to worry about.
I hope your girlfriend gets raped by a pack of feral niggers
I'm going to say, every single relationship I've seen between a 18/19 year old and a 24/25 year old has always been fucked up. The girl always has some sort of issues, is always possessive as fuck, and the guy is always on a super short leash.
Hell, I once went on a date a 19 year old when I was 25 for shits and giggles. At one point in the night she literally said, "I USED to be crazy possessive, when I was really young. Like 17"
In my head I'm like... you just told me you turned 19 like 2 months ago... so like a year and some change ago?
Just tempering all the "go for it's", fair warning, if you're looking for a relationship, proceed with caution.
I've found that college age girls are weirdly flaky. They'll randomly cancel or ghost you.
But they are more tolerant if you're carless or have a dumpy job than a woman in her mid or late 20's.
It's also a mental maturity things, and high school age kid tend to be immature and over-dramatic as fuck. This is especially true of girls who feel they have to date men that are nearly half their age again or older than they are:
That same girl;
"I hate dating guys my age because they're always so immature. Older men are way better"
When you're 18, it's easier to put up with because you're in the same place, but when you're in your mid 20's, that's when you start to calm down and start to get your shit together and start your life.
Is that true for everyone? No there are exceptions. But that's the general mindset when it comes to people of those ages.
This If she`s 16/of legal age it's never weird. People do it all the time. Less uptight people tend to not give a shit. And if it's not you it will be someone else. Don't miss out on something that has potential because other people think its weird