so a female friend and i just got drunk together and admitted that we kind of like each other
im happily married, i would never leave my wife but i feel kind of gross inside over this
Just divorce faggot, I say the same to dumb cunts who think like you do. Your wife deserves better and I hope that she cucks you. Why did you get married in the first place you dishonest shit?
yeah but i mean how? it's not like we fucked or anything we just agreed that we kind of liked each other but that we werent going to do anything retarded
i just feel weird about it i have no idea why
so ok if it was so bad what should i do from here? just never talk to her again or what?
At first, you are naive if you thought that you would never feel anything for another woman for the rest of your life, its happen to everybody, nobody has attraction to only the same person for the rest of their lives, but the question is, can you get over this feeling for the sake of your marriage? you said that you're happy with your wife, i think you should just forget about it and wait until this crush end
yes definitely i mean this isnt even a thing like
we're friends. she was being down on herself. i told her to quit, that she was awesome and that i'd date her if i wasnt happily married and that shed find someone
she told me i was a great guy and at the end we both agreed that we kind of liked each other but that we would never talk about it again
my marriage isnt even close to being at risk, at all. i fucking adore my wife so much i'd never leave her for just some friend i happen to think is sweet
i just didnt know why i felt so bad about it and wanted to know if i was a piece of shit or not
She's probably a whale isn't she? She's a whale, and you're wife's probably a whale too eh? Yeeeep, they're whales.
You had an intimate moment with a woman who is not your wife, where you admitted you had feelings for her. That's emotional cheating. How would you feel if she went off and got drunk with some Chad and admitted she was wet for him?
You're married. The answer is to shut these feelings down, never discuss them with anyone including the girl, and act as if nothing happened.
If your wife finds out, blame booze and admit no fault, but still apologize. At this point, it's a one off thing, no big deal. Don't let it get any bigger. Honesty doesn't get you anywhere here and can erode your marriage.
Anyone who says anything else had either never been married or is incredibly naive.
This. Anyone who gives "100% honesty" is an idiot, no one should should do that at any point in their life. If you think your coworker is an idiot do you tell them so? Hell no, you talk to them, debate their ideas and see if you can convince them to do something different (or at least come to a compromise). There's a difference between candor and saying every single thing that's on your mind.
You WILL be attracted to other people, so will your wife. The important thing is what you do about it. This is why you try not to be alone with any close friends of the opposite sex in vulnerable situations for too long - humans are humans, don't take the risks and disallow the chance for biological impulse to take over.