I resently discovered that not only I'm not an ugly fuck,

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>>16679779
>pic unrelated
I wanted to use this:

Grow a pair

>>16679787
/thread?
kek, how? It's overbearing because I have never been treated like a hot guy in jr. and highschool. It's all new to me.

>>16679798
I dunno, I'm still a virgin.

>>16679811
Same, tbqh familia.

>>16679822
By shutting up, and thinking before you speak.

>>16679779
next time before you say something,

think about the >implications and consequences of what you're saying. Understand that its sometimes better to not say anything at all than to speak without any thought behind it

If you're really have "highly above avg. intelligence" this should not be hard

>look at me I'm an attention whore

Fuck off dickhead

>>16679893
>I posted my face
>I posted my name
>I posted my hobbies
>I posted my graduate titles

>>16679881
>>16679890
It's really hard with ADHD, sometimes I drift away when I do that, and rarely come back without someone else snaping me out of my daydream.
Anyway, already on therapy about it, so I guess I'm already doing what I should be doing about this issue.

Any tips on initiating conversation with strange women, though?

>>16679779
Dude, just roll with it. Confidence does not come overnight.

Now that you've made this discovery, just practice on it. Not many folks can say to themselves that they are handsome/cute.

Initiating conversation is nerve-racking, but that too can be fully developed with practice. I guarentee you will fuck up the first few times, but you will succeed other times.

Personally, making people laugh (no matter the sex) is the best way to make yourself comfortable at any given context. In my experience, talking to the men at a given party first helps me ease into the venue. After I've made a few acquaintances, shit, they would sometimes introduce me to the chicks! But if that doesn't happen, at least you know people there.

After that, after I became comfortable, I would then start chatting it up with some of the chicks.

This, of course, is my own experience, take it as you will. It's all about building YOUR method of speaking with chicks.

>>16679907
Shit, so I literally have to get used to it? Lol, wish there was some sort of shortcut to confidence that didn't involve steroids...

>>16679907
Thank you anyways, my good Anon. Promise you I'll fuck it up.

>>16679921
>>16679922
Trust me dude, I went through exactly what you described. Of course, don't become an arrgoant asshole either! That can happen.

Here's a link that somewhat gave me some foundation.

http://www. mode. com/stories/12-things-confident-men-do-differently/11781683

Again though, YOU have to make your method. It will take time.

You will have awkard moments.

But you will succeed, if you have perseverance. Everything starts with you, so work on you first.


(Also alcohol and some predy gud friends help a long way)

>>16679922
And you are welcome Anon, much love <3

>>16679921
>>16679922
Forgot to mention, /fa/ is another pretty solid spot to start. You'll know how to dress well (good way to build confidence), just don't mind the many assholes that thrive in there. Some mean good.

/fit/ is predy gud too, but I haven't been in a long while.

>>16679779
>a lot of women find me very attractive but I'm too beta to do anything about it, and when I get the chance, I blow it. Also, good at keeping conversations, but horrible at initiating them.

They don't find you attractive

you are a self centered asshole most likely won't never get laid outside whores.
Get some therapy so you can become a better person seriously.

>>16679959
>implying I get laid
Already going to therapy, m8.

>>16679944
>>16679933
Anyway, actually I'm usually on /fit/, but might go to /fa/ for advice, really good idea.
Will give that a read. Thanks Anon.

>>16680010
>/fit
>/fa/

waste a lot of money on a overpriced shirt and waste a lot of money in gym supplements just to snap your back in 3 months

>>16680015
I actually been lifting for 2 years and the only noteworthy injury I've had was while jogging.
Even if /fa/ suggests expensive clothing, I'll take it as a base and go for cheaper similar clothing.

>>16680023
you are homosexual brah

it's alright

>>16680033
double dubs confirm