Friend of mine is coming over to watch netflix later. Shes been coming for a while now but all she end up doing is squeezing my arm or resting her head on my shoulder. I tried cuddling with her and we held hands on "accident" a few times but she always moves away after a while.
How do people progress into the "chill" part of the netflix experience? How do i work our way up to doing somethin sexual?
>I tried cuddling with her and we held hands on "accident" a few times but she always moves away after a while.
Is she actually aware of your intentions, or are you using your friendship as a guise to try and get in her pants? Because it sounds like that latter to me
How should i make it known to her? I have tried being more sexually forward with her in the way i respond to some of things she say but i do it in a semi-jokin way
>but all she end up doing is squeezing my arm or resting her head on my shoulder. I tried cuddling with her and we held hands on "accident" a few times but she always moves away after a while.
sigh... how can some guys be so fucking dumb.
She is signalling you she wants you to respond in kind. She moves away when you don't give back the right signals because she feels awkward to have reached out and you've not responded.
If she does it again. Hold her hand, not by accident and see what happens. If OK then kiss the top of her head and say something like "I really like us doing this"
If she says 'me too' then kiss her if the mood is right.
I guess im just afraid of giving her the false impression that i want a relationship
Like she hasnt been in one since she was
14 and it was really short and im not sure whether kissing first is the right thing to do
So you don't want a relationship with her... sorry I thought you did... so scratch out what I said above about kissing.
She is interested in a relationship with you. The cuddling 'as friends' is confusing because friends don't cuddle unless there's something else going on.
You can just keep doing the same thing as always and if she eventually asks you for more you need to consider her feelings when you answer.
DUde these guys are giving the gayest things to say. Next to shes with you, fucking guess her u actual faggot.
ARE U FUCKING GAY DUDE U KISS GRAB HER U KISS HER AND RUB HER VAGINA IF SHES OVER THE AGE Of 16 u are 100% getting fucked.
adding onto this i shuld added more. If she says no stop dont then there you go thats ur aswer. Theres no way to make it go forward bro theres no formula for getting someone to like u likee that it just happens or doesnt all u can do is try ur best.
If you hit her up for FWB and she said yes then be warned she'd be saying yes thinking you will fall in love the moment you have sex. Then she'll be hurt all the more when it is indeed 'just sex'
Most chicks don't do FWB. There was a brief fad in the 90s and 00s but even then those that rtied it usually wanted more and got bitter when it didn't happen.