I met this girl- she's great, funny, intelligent, very beautiful... but there's a catch. She has a dick.
I'm very confused about my feelings and emotions because I really like her and stuff but on the other hand it's like "boner, stop". I'm so so so so confused. Can someone make sense of all this stuff in my head for me? Thank you.
Well, are you a faggot or are you not?
I mean, does she turn you on? Do you want to have sex with her? I think the only way to get un-confused is to just give it a try and see if you enjoy it or not. Don't get preoccupied with "what it means," or how you should label yourself if you enjoy it, because that shit doesn't matter. Either you're into it, or you're not.
You mean a boy in women's clothes?
Yes, that does make you a fag.
If she looks like a girl and identifies as a girl, then don't be confused. I doubt she'll want you to ever suck her dick or anything, unless you're willing to discover more about your sexuality. The worst that could happen is, well, nothing.
You're probably freaked out because deep down, you know this makes you a fucking faggot and degenerate.
There are two problems I see with this:
1. Social stigma, which you can probably deal with. After all, she does.
2. Not being into dicks, which is dicey to verify because nobody likes being an experiment, but if it's the case it's the case and that sucks for you both.
If you are merely upset about your sexuality and what this makes you, it makes you someone attracted to women. Dating someone really nice who you cannot have sex with without repulsion is something else.
It's not gay if """"she"""" has a feminine penis :^)
Jokes aside, yeah m8, you're probably gay. Don't be bothered by it, it's just how you are. Now go and fuck """"her"""" in the anus.
If you really only hate the fact that she has a dick and you are truly het, make up some shit like you being asexual or celibate. They're trans, they understand Tumblrspeak.
I agree with these anons. If you genuinely like her then roll with it and don't stress over what it means for your sexuality. If you're not into it let her know and don't force yourself to move forward with the relationship.
Do you have concerns over what others will think of you?
I really don't get this attitude. I think there's absolutely nothing wrong with crossdressers or transgenders or anything in between, I don't think there's anything wrong with dating or fucking them, and if OP likes this person, I agree he should go for it.
But "she's a girl" is a lie, and it doesn't "make him gay" but this would not be a hetero relationship. It's a boy who dresses, acts, and presents himself like a girl. She can't have a baby, she has a dick, stop bullshitting yourself. And that's ABSOLUTELY FINE. Some of you liberals get to the point where you're actually more racist and homophobic than the conservatives, because for some reason you need to lie to yourselves and ignore facts. Like, why would you even need to make a statement like that unless you felt it'd be somehow wrong for OP to have a kinda-gay relationship with this trans-girl?
>absolutely nothing wrong with crossdressers or transgenders
>fags are ok