Gf wanted to take a break for a couple weeks and not talk. Said she had to figure some things out. She said there are issues with our relationship. Issues that she never ever brought up to me until she initiated the break. It's confusing as hell because she's never been like this before. This weekend will be two weeks since we talked. Should I contact her at the end of this week or should I wait for her to message me? Any ladies with an opinion on this?
yes, i'm a lady with an opinion on this.
Your girlfriend is retarded. You can't just up and make a decision to take a break like that for two weeks. Like shit, a day or two I'd get, but two weeks?
And you're an even bigger retard for letting her dangle you on a string like that. Write to her today and tell her that you've given her enough time, and that if she want to continue being in this relationship you two can meet up and discuss the issues like two adults. If she doesn't, you want to know so that you can end this shit.
Stop being so fucking beta man put your foot down
I have never seen a "break" be anything other than code for "I want to fuck someone else while not feeling guilty about it and also have you on the back burner in case it doesn't work out." The fact that she used reasons that she never expressed during the actual relationship just screams that she was rationalizing it.
Sounds like she's fucking someone else dude, or she's definitely considering it.
When ever someone says they want a break the relationship is finished, they just want to get out but don't know how to do it.
It's been 2 weeks and she hasn't contacted you? Says it right there guy.
Everything in this thread about her fucking other dudes is correct. Her justifications, the abruptness of it, ect. OP, I wouldn't even talk to her about what she "wants." What she wants is to have 20 cocks DPing her. Don't even give her the time of day.