I can't see why yall say all that shit about gettin laid easily at college. What situations does college provide for that? This is my first year at uni and for fuck's sake, it's just like highschool with ocasional class meetings for drinking on the streets (after which each one returns home alone).
yeah you could go to fag boy parties OP (if you're already in a frat, they don't just let you come in to party) but if you weren't very attractive in highschool that's what you need to work on first
You're about 25% the way through your sexually active life. You've got a few more years before you'll be stuck in an office with a handful of married/fat chicks. I suggest you figure it the fuck out ASAP.
Not OP, but why do even come to /adv/if you're just going to shit on the keyboard like that?
You need to meet people at social events and maximize your exposure to more people. You can join clubs and activists groups, but ultimately the most important thing is talking to people and making relationships. You may think you want to wait until you "get your shit figured out" or "get really fit at the gym" before you feel confident around people and making new relationships, but that will never come easily until you practice putting yourself out there. I'm not saying b urself, I'm saying you've got to keep talking to new people until it stops being awkward and painful.
Not him, but it wasn't a "get out there, man!" comment. OP said "hey guys I'm struggling with this thing," and that guy basically said "the clock is ticking, you sad fucker, so hurry up and stop struggling soon!" Completely unhelpful.
There's nothing someone in OP's position can hear that they haven't heard before. Unless someone from here is going to have sex with OP, the thread is already useless. OP knows what they have to do: make themselves as attractive as possible and put themselves out there. Nothing more we can say will help them
How can a brother make himself attractive mane. My face is average, my body is midly fine (in the skinny side). I guess shit just happens because my attitude, and it's true that I find boring all the smalltalk (that seems to be the predominant form of communication between my classmates, drunk or not) of my classmates and shit. Boredom and spaghetti I'd say.