i look like a fucking child at 22, kinda like a young thom yorke without a beard.
is this why girls seem to instantly dislike me?
>is this why
I don't know, we don't know what you look like.
There's a lot of girls who like older men, younger men, it doesn't really matter.
How's your attitude? How social are you? Friends? Job?
girls don't actually "instantly dislike me", it's just a way of saying that they just don't seem romantically interested in me.
i'm in college; i have like 3 actual friends; i'm quite polite and funny (i think), but i'm pretty quiet half the time.
Try being more social even if it's rough. I find that a lot of the time I don't find myself attracted to someone unless I get to know them better.
Join clubs and stuff like theater. There's usually some cute girls who do theater who are outgoing and fun. Maybe not your 9/10s.