>start relationship with girl last summer
>first serious relationship for both of us
>both have sex for the first time, it's okay
>she's too conscious to let me give head
>her mouth is small, so her teeth scrape when she gives me often head
Fast forward to now
>sex is awesome
>she cums at least twice every time
>can make her cum around eight times before she gets tapped out
>neither of us give very good head
>it feels good when she does, but teeth prevent any serious enjoyment
>she rarely lets me give head, I've only made her cum once
>she gets close but never reaches
>feel as though she doesn't want me to because she feels self conscious about not giving good head
Do you guys have any tips for either of us in this situation? I don't want to only go straight to sex every time, it gets boring doing the same exact thing nearly every time. She can't do much without hurting me, and I'm having trouble making her cum through oral.
Tell her to use her hands and spit when giving head and for you just watch a lot of videos and read up on how to give a girl head. Or you could just sit down with her and she can tell you everything that feels good. Or maybe oral isnt for you guys, maybe invest in some toys for foreplay
Advice for her, start small, only suck the head, lots of saliva. Use hands to work the shaft, increase depth with practice.
For you, go slow, work the outside. Flick the bean with your tongue. The bean, aka clitoris, is the part that hardens with stimulation. It is near the top of the inverted V above the vaginal opening. Start with a slow Rhythm and gradually increase rate until she starts to flex her hip flexors. One she is warmed up, slowly work a finger in while maintaining the same tongue rhythm. Once you can free slide a finger in, or two, turn your palm up an work your fingers in a "come hither" motion. Basically fingers pointed out, the retracted towards your palm. Gradually work fingers faster and faster until she is flopping like a fish out of water. Work fingers and tongue together until she cannot take it anymore.
This is understandable, but I am telling the truth.
I take a really long time to reach orgasm, and I believe it's more than likely because of my circumcision. It's not every time that she's relaxed enough to orgasm more than twice, but if she's feeling up for it, we can go until she just can't take the friction. She generally has to finish me by hand.
I don't think she's the kind of girl to use toys. She downright refuses to rub her clit during sex, yet she'll provide spit for it. What would you suggest, though?
I have tried this, but she can't reach orgasm solely from this. She can get close, but it's only actually happened once. I was hoping for more advances techniques.
Without a hands on demonstration, it is impossible to give you more in depth instruction. All I can say is that it is all about the rhythm and her personal comfort. If you are having trouble with this, I think there may be an issue of stress and her relaxation. Show her just how much you are enjoying going down on her. She needs to believe that it is your favorite activity in the world and you cannot get enough of eating her out. She will derive enjoyment from your enjoyment and this will result in her becoming comfortable. For me, when a girl is twitching beneath my tongue and squeezing my head so hard between her thighs that my head feels like it may pop, I cannot help but be turned on and women respond to that. For a woman, a big part of orgasm is knowing that she is satisfying her partner. Given enough progression, women can orgasm simply from knowing that their partner is orgasming. Take your time, enjoy going down on a woman and she will respond. You have to make her understand how much her enjoyment pleased you.