i'm so paranoid of smelling bad or doing something stupid, especially since i'm not his first
I took my ex's virginity so I'll break it to you as simple as I can.
Yes, you will be nervous.
Yes he'll notice something is off.
If you chill out, relax, and enjoy yourself then he won't think he's hurting you or freaking you out.
He has experience so he knows what he is doing. If you come off as stiff, nervous, or whatever, he WILL stop, and he WILL ask you if anything is wrong. If he doesn't then lol he's kind of insensitive or is selfishly enjoying the fact he is taking your virginity.
Anyway, the more stressed out you'll be, the tighter you'll be and harder it will be for him to put his dick inside you.
Yes it will hurt. Yes you will have to guide him slowly. Tell him when to stop going in, then tell him when you're ready for him to continue going in. The moment his head is inside you the hard part is over. Next all you need to do is just enjoy him fucking you. You probably will find it more weird than enjoyable, but try to feel his dick if that makes sense.
My ex kept saying how everything felt weird. Kind of a turn off. Months later she now can tell me what feels right and what doesn't.
More importantly OP you need to know yourself in order for the both of you to enjoy sex with each other. If it feels weird, you have to ask yourself: does it hurt? If yes, you don't like it, if no then you probably like it or are indifferent to it.
Also be prepared to have anal at some point.
Can you really not hold in a fart for the half hour it takes to have sex? If so you need more help than we can provide.
Really just don't worry about it too much. As long as you're not in pain or uncomfortable let what happens happen. The guy won't complain.
>protection / contraception?
>drink cranberry juice for clitplay
>ensure there is clitplay so you're wet
>communicate and be honest; he should respect this bc it's your first time and you're showing a lot of trust
>think of something chill to do afterwards, a tv show or card game.