So, is it a common theme for women to look at messages and not reply to them in a timely manner, or do women just not care about me? This chick's been off and on FB for the past 9 hours, and hasn't replied. She previously was asking questions and obviously wanted to keep talking, but this pisses me off. I've never had a woman talk to me actively like my guy friends do.
she's busy or not interested. Either way you're investing too much energy into it. If she really wants to talk to you, she will. You're wasting time sitting around waiting for a response
If you fill your time with productive activity, you won't notice the lack of responses and you'll be a more interesting person that people will want to talk to.
It loterally happens everu time though, I've never landed a date. I know I'm at least slightly attractive.
But for 9 hours...? And she's online at least every 30 minutes?
She asked me in person how to say something in German, and I was too busy to explain it. Then we got into talking about politics somehow.
she's not really interested,op.
When I am interested in a guy, I respond to his messages right away. I also respond to my really good friend's messages right away because I know they care about that stuff.
Replying to people I don't care about as much falls lower on my priority list.
I understand your frustration- it is rude, especially if you are waiting on her. I suggest trying to change your outlook, since there will always be at least 1 or 2 people who do this to you. Try having lower expectations. Don't expect her to respond to a message right away, and you won't me disappointed when she takes a few hours.
Oh like fuck I have
>tfw "maybe anon" or "sure! But I'm busy today, I'll tell you some other time!" or "I just broke up with my bf, I need time for me, but thanks!"
JUST FUCK MY SHIT UP
Never reply instantly. Wait maybe 15-20 minutes after the first text, and if you actually are in the middle of a conversation you can speed it up to 3-4 minutes between texts. Yeah it seems dishonest but it's the only way not to come across as needy.
If a girl doesn't reply within the hour she is most likely not interested. There's a very small chance she didn't notice it. Girls are always paying attention to their phones.
You will be a MUCH happier person once you realize that it's OK when girls simply aren't interested. Never become so obsessed with an individual that you become stressed when they don't reply. That is only OK if you're, like, married or something.
But judging by the pic of that massive faggot in your OP that you kind of already know this.
That's fucking stupid though. We have instant messaging. Call me retarded, but I think someone in this world should have the decency to hold a conversation if they have time and want to. I shouldn't have to fucking wait to not look "needy".
>Wait maybe 15-20 minutes after the first text
These childish games should have died a painful death when you left high school. If a girl I know does this, I will lose interest pretty damn fast.