Long story short:
>girl friendzones me
>silent mode for 3 months
>change my profile picture
>"Happy new year anon!" You look very handsome in your profile picture"
>suprised, didn't know how to react because it's not her style
>read shit load of PUA and advice from here and redpill
>replied 3 days later: "Happy new year to you too"
>marked as seen
>find out she recently made an instagram account but made no effort to follow me
Is it a telltale sign that I fucked up and I should let go?
Hey look here mate, I always acted beta and thought I could somewhat salvage the relationship. Never had gf/kissless/handholdness/touchless virgin. So I thought there MUST be something wrong with me.
So I started working out, dress well, eat well, met new people, new hobbies...but I was still at square one. I know my game is horrible and I thought it could help me. Guess not.
If you're at least trying to improve your chances with women, look into Corey Wayne's 3% Man. If you're a cheap fuck just watch his videos but you'll be missing crucial information.
Lel PUA is for betas who can't into human emotions. Thousands of generations were able to pull women before you - literally every single one o your ancestors got laid. Search more for what it means to be human and you'll find how to care and be cared for.
Well I thought I should take some time to answer to not appear needy. I usually answered pretty fast but I wanted to feel pursued...because if I pursued her I'll still appear beta/weak?
she's some random fucking girl trying to be nice to you
you should have tried to talk to her immediately, try to get her number or whatever. the window of opportunity there was barely existent, very small and fleeting, and you missed it by three whole days.
find another girl.
Already have her number, went a few dates with her and rejected me...what kind of opportunity I had? If I replied her sooner, I'd be giving her attention and thus repeating the cycle but I thought by doing something different would trigger a fifferent reaction. Was my logic flawed or???