should i stay strong for this guy who has absolutely done everything terrible and deal breaking that you can do in a relationship and stay together with him? just because he loves me so much? is unconditional love worth ignoring past problems that made me go through hell?
yes he has cheated on me, he eventually came back crawling to me on his knees. i thought i forgave him for it but after i forced him to tell me the whole story i felt really hurt again. this is the main reason i have doubts now.
he adores the hell outta me, i'm like a godess to him. scary t b h
he's fucked in the head. if he loved you unconditionally, he wouldn't do things to you that hurt you. it took me a 4 year relationship and failed engagement to learn actions speak louder than words. the girl wasn't ill-intentioned, but if i took her actions for what they were instead of believing all her words, i'd have realized she's immature and doesn't know more herself. that sounds like your guy
i never thought cheating was the ultimate reason to break up as long as you can talk it out, but yea he definately lost a lot of my trust because of this, and now idk if it's worth it anymore because he fucked up in a lot of different ways. he's sorry because in the end he hurt himself more than me. i'm taking a break from him for a few days and see how my feelings will change.