What up advisers,
So my boyfriend and I have been having sex for about 3-4 months now. And for my it's mostly really great. He's also said that it's really good for him. We're both in college and the week before I left for Christmas break about maybe a third to a half of the time we had sex he'd been having a hard time coming.
We'll be apart for another week and it's something that I don't want to continue to be a problem. We talk pretty openly about sex and we have talked about it but he doesn't know why it's happening either. We try new things, some we like more than others. There was also some stress with finals. I also read somewhere that trying not to come can cause this kind of problem. You know, we both want to come, he's usually ready before I am but he likes to make sure I get mine too. Sometimes we jump right into it though and skip the foreplay. Maybe we should try getting back into that.
Has anyone else had this sort of problem?
The thing is before we even talked about this he admitted to me that he doesn't really masturbate. And he knows I wouldn't have a problem with it so there's no reason for him to lie to me. He says that he basically can't masturbate. He doesn't get hard enough to continue let alone finish :/
This. Your b/f is too used to his own hands. Tell his to stop fapping becuase you want all his jizz to yourself, and that you are the only one allowed to make him cum. He'll get into it and things will improve.
Also more sex... all the time. Don't give him time to fap.
I mean if that's so then it's contrary to what he's been saying to me as recently as today. He talks a lot about how attracted to me he is.
Well, he says he has only masturbated a few times in his life and only came from masturbation less (pic related)
I'd say we have as much sex as our schedules allow. Probably between 5-9 times a week
I mean but when we have sex before that last week he never had problems coming. In fact we have to wash our sheets all the time and shower after every time.
Well it that's really it and he's just not being honest then I don't know what to do.
Pic is a conversation after I asked him if he thought it was because he had been trying not to come so I could come first. I also sent him some pics the night before
Yeah he's pretty fit. He was a wrestler in high school and still works out a good amount. It's not that I feel he doesn't want to have sex. He usually does.
I don't know why he'd feel the need to bring up the topic and lie to me about it when I'd be completely fine with it. He knows I masturbate.