>>16664171 I don't think you are ugly at all. Your lips and eyes are adorable. You have naturally rosy cheeks.
I do think you need to take care of your hair. Settle the frizz. No more ponytail.
Also, your eyebrows are a little full and they take away from your eyes. Clean them up with threading or waxing. I prefer threading. Only costs like 6 bucks to do every few weeks.
If you want to learn to do make up, it's not like you have to wear a full cake face. I still only wear eye make up and blush and this is enough for me. Foundation makes me break out and I feel too unnatural.
But I mean, your looks are just to get the slight attention of a male. Your personality is what makes men stay. You could totally get a boyfriend. Just polish up.
>>16664171 You're plain put completely passable. Your lack of success is probably because of your personality or confidence. Stop being too self conscious or at least don't let it show or act like it. Guys give less of a shit than you think, my guess is you're either too shy or you aren't letting them talk to you.
>>16664202 Basically this. Your appearance is OK (some people here will say otherwise, but this board tends to tell perfectly average people they're hideous, please don't take it personally.) It's your hair and fashion choices and general manner that's making you look unattractive.
Straighten your hair or at least get a flattering haircut and wear it down. Tied up like that is not a good look for you.
Do something about those eyebrows.
That sweater isn't terribly flattering either. Get new clothes.
Smile (at least when taking a picture) and open your eyes wider, you look sleepy/bored/sad.
Do all that shit and you'll look completely fine, not model-hot maybe but cute enough to make the question "can I get a BF" seem utterly laughable. Right now you're like a real-person version of when Hollywood casts a gorgeous actress as an ugly person or a "nerd," ie uglifying them with a terrible haircut or whatever, right up til they get advice from the popular girl and undergo their "transformation." You know, that stupid scene in every high school movie.
>>16664251 Personality, confidence, the ability to identify your social class (realistic expectations of what kind of person to pursue based on your looks and personality), timing, place, chemistry, ability to keep up a relationship.
The picture looks a tad boring, but that's probably because you're wearing plain clothes, and not really trying to look attractive. If you want to get noticed for looking pretty, you might need to consider a slight change in style. Notice the "if" at the start of that last sentence. Looks aren't everything, and you definitely don't want to waste too much effort on it, unless you would be happy with a boyfriend who mainly cares about you for your looks (which will largely wither away over the next few decades, and if that's all you have between you...)
Are you hitting on guys, or waiting for them to hit on you? Keep in mind that we're in the 21st century now, and it's perfectly OK for a girl to make the first move. Your dream man might feel just as shy and insecure as you...
Have you had any relationships in the past? Had initial contact with guys that didn't work out?
>>16664240 Welcome to the life of an appreciable percentage of early-twenties dudes. Look, you're not alone, this isn't that uncommon -- I've met several girls in the same boat too, all of whom I thought "hell, I'd have dated her" about. I'd never had a girlfriend when I was in my early 20s either. I wasn't light-speed awkward and I flatter myself by thinking I'm fairly attractive. It just hadn't happened yet.
You're either doing something wrong (your standards are unrealistic, or you're acting way too shy) or you've just been unlucky and it's due to happen soon. It's not that you're "just not good enough", actually obese women can get boyfriends, and apart from the things people have mentioned (fixable) you look basically normal.
A boyfriend isn't a fucking commodity that you get after you meet a minimum level of hotness, there's another person involved and sometimes it's a while before you meet the right one.
>>16664235 I'm not talking about platonic male friends, I'm talking bout dudes you're into. Introduce yourself and let them flirt or talk or whatever. It's all about availability and body language. If you aren't already super hot guys won't bother if you aren't approachable in the way someone who's available is.
>>16664261 Look, my sister is in the same boat. She's 25 and finally found her first boyfriend. She isn't "conventionally" attractive. She's average looking and is obese. She has a mess of frizzy hair on top of her head. She has a cool personality, but is pretty introverted. Recently, she started really taking care of herself. She's always been big, but she started trying to lose weight, she found fashionable clothing in her size, she goes out with her friends and has fun, talks to people. And she finally met someone. For years she thought she'd be alone and didn't even try. She was bullied since elementary. She asked guys out in high school and they made fun of her. she likes anime and vidya. She just didn't have the "it" interests that most people do, but she still found someone who thinks she is cool and beautiful.
>>16664171 If you managed your hair and made a prettier face, or actually smiled, you would look a lot better. You're actually really pretty and have a full face and it works for you. Just manage it a little better
>>16664287 See thats a problem because they're you're friends. Guys fucking hate that shit. I'm currently dealing with 2 chicks like that and it's driving me up a wall because they're just friends and thats it. The fact I find them attractive and the fact they're good friends is unrelated. Unless they're already into you, your attempts won't work.
These threads are hilarious. When an average to unattractive woman posts this shit it's full of support and "Oh you're not bad. Guys don't care lol you're actually cute" but when the level of guy posts this shit he gets torn to shreds, called a faggot, told to lift/get a haircut/he'll die a virgin/etc.
>>16664518 No, they're held to different standards. Men are physically superior and capable of selfless logical thinking. Women are physically attractive and capable or emotional and introspective thinking.
The problem is guys these days don't take advantage of their advantages. They don't train their bodies, they don't get a summer job in highschool, they follow the paved road of going to college on their parents dollar, and then complain that women have it easier. Its like a racecar driver failing a driving test because he didn't bother learn how to drive on the road because he was pretty damn sure he should be able to drive a Honda. Having a dick doesn't make you man.
fix the hair. thin the eyebrows down alot. lookup makeup tuts on youtube. start dressing like you're in your 20s and appreciate your body more. start loving yourself and it'll start flowing together. you have a decent foundation don't be so insecure.
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