Revenge is a self-destructive kind of concept. Only if you can believe that someone being even slightly worse off than you can you embark on that path. Sacrificing yourself for another person should not be an act of revenge.
Was still crying texting her like 30 minutes but well.. decided to stop texting her now. I really fucking hope that the douchebag with who she is will broke hardly with her. Then that she realized that I was different, trying to keep her safe everyday from the pain.
Well actually she was scarifying most of the time. And everytime she needed me, I was there. I even walked for 2 hours and wait 1 hour to talk to her, someday. But she never came. Actually it was yesterday.
>>16662131 You don't get revenge on a girl who cheated on you and then broke up with you. We live in a place and time where a girl who does both of these things is essentually untouchable: there is nothing you can do that will hurt her in any way without getting yourself arrested.
The ones who cheat and try to stay are another matter. For these cases, all you have to do is leave, cut contact, and get on with your life. It sounds strange, and ot's certainly not a very satisfying form of revenge, but it will fucking WRECK them. Seriously. I think it must have something to do with value that modern culture places on maintaining friendships (or at least cordial relations) at all costs. The best part is that it's totally self-inflicted, and this fact alone makes it hurt even worse.
But when they cheat and leave, there's nothing you can do. They beat you to the punch, and it sucks, but there's nothing left that you can do to hurt them once they've done this. Not that doesn't end up hurting you way worse, anyway.
anon, i am literally in the same situation as you.
trust me, texting her rapidly won't fix the situation. it will only make her and you worse off.
the rage and shit you're feeling is normal, but don't dwell on it. it'll pass. you did nothing wrong here, and you don't need to have revenge.
I have no idea how long you were with her, but chances are she'll probably ditch this other guy too.
Do something you enjoy. Play vidya, go for a walk, fap if you're that desperate. You might not think you deserve it but you do and you should.
You were a good bf, don't let her or anyone tell you you weren't. She was a shitty ex who just used you, and she'll keep doing it and doing it.
Don't try to give her attention in any way, even in a way of revenge. She'll feed off of it. Do what all the other anons in this thread say, live a good life.
The best type of revenge is to isolate her. Never talk to her. Show her you don't need her. Forget she exists entirely. Don't do anything violent or irrational. You're better than that, and you're better than her.
Don't get revenge be the man. Walk away and find yourself a new woman(note:not infantile complex girl in woman's body.). Those strong signals and pain you are feeling is your brain subconsciously telling you to stay the fuck away. It's why we experience pain it's the same as pulling your hand away from a hot plate instinctively. Tell her how much she disappointed you though and that you forgive her but can't ever be with her because trust is gone. Kill her with kindness but be firm but never vindictive.
>>16662131 Tell everyone that she cheated on you. make sure that everyone knows that related to both him and her. Try to get in close with her friends but dont interact with her while doing so. Her friends will sympathize with you which will slowly eat at their relationship. Furthermore, if this doesnt work. Then both she and her friends are people without a soul. You have to realize that you got out lucky. Be sure to say that as well. >Shes a cheating whore. Im not even mad, the thought that she could have strung me along longer is terrifying. Im so glad Im free of such a terrible person. The people that know her that hear this will also agree with you and it will lessen her value as a person in whatever circle you guys run in.
Dated a girl for three years and she cheated on me the summer before we went off to college together. Found out a few months later. Been trying to make that shit work for the past year but just ended up cheating on her out of spite. Wish I had just moved on.
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