About finding a girl to start a family with?
I keep reading 2 opposite views when it comes to this.
One side says, "Men should not worry about getting married until 35-40 because this is when they will start having more opportunities to find a girl. This is at the height of his sexual market value. Younger women like older men, older as in older than them. Not old."
But then I hear the other extreme, "You're doomed if you don't find a girl by 30. You're window is closing. Only 30+ women with kids will find you interesting now."
Which one is more accurate? I am 32 and starting to worry I will never find someone young enough to start a family with.
Would like to hear from a femanon if possible.
Well, I don't believe there is no hope in either situation. It's not so dire as that.
I believe in the numbers, and the numbers say that the larger the age gap, the larger the chance of relationship failure.
Also, the larger the age gap, the larger the chance of children with defects like autism. And the older the father, the larger this chance is too. It's not only mothers who have to worry about increased age.
However, it is also true that the younger people are when married, the more likely divorce is.
So with all of this, I think it's ideal for people to start relationship as a young adult in their 20s, be together for years, then get married and have children in their late 20s and early 30s.
This is just the "ideal" though. People outside of it still absolutely have the chance of success.
I'd say don't give up and keep looking.
I wouldn't start worrying about it until after 35 or so, from a numbers perspective. By that age your likelihood of marrying has fallen to less than 50-50, according to some sociological research. This is probably because 1) by that age, you'll be set in your personal ways and be used to getting along without a spouse and 2) most women who want to have children will have married well before then, generally to a man within a few years of their own age (median age is 28 for women, 30 for men).
You have to look at from an attraction standpoint too. There is an appeal that older men have for 18-24 year old girls, who are in the best biological shape to have healthy children, but unless you take really good care of yourself that will have waned by the time you're in your forties, unless you want to make babies with a girl with daddy issues.
i think the ideia that older guys can get young girls with ease holds some truth, but guys tend to overestimate it
it's not different from someone thinking that everyone who was a nerd when young is going to become rich and succesful
it happens, but not as often as people make it to be
Yah I think I'm gonna be facing foreveralone.jpg
It doesnt seem to be getting easier.
I have the "things" that most girls are supposed to want. Stability. Good job. Home. Vehicles. Not fat. But manlet.
I'm getting pretty depressed about it, but maybe it's not meant for everyone.