I went through a really terrible break up and I feel myself really slipping. I've even started to believe in astrology bullshit. Long story short, I'm a Pieces so supposedly extremely sensitive and melodramatic and this break up is absolutely killing me. I just can't forget the good times despite realizing we would have never worked out and I keep obsessing over the emptiness it left me with. Would throwing myself into meeting someone new help? Casual sex maybe? Or would that make someone oversensitive like me feel even worse?
I'm not that into it so I don't know of this is right but I got this off the internet.
Ok correction post natal chart from
And you know your exact time of birth right?
Cafe astrology is broken and always gives that chart see? I just entered random info
I think it's interesting that you feel that casual sex will make you feel better, because I do the same and I'm a Pisces as well.
Since I've done this in the past, I'll share some advice. First of all, I'm sorry you're having such a rough time, OP. Things change for a reason, and think of being single as an opportunity for personal growth.
After I broke up with my first boyfriend in college (a relationship of 2 years) I turned to casual sex with strangers to comfort me and explore my sexuality as well as other aspects of my personality. Casual sex is not bad, but if you are fucking to strangers to get the thought of your ex out of you, (which I have done) it will wear a hole in you.
Make sure that when you have sex with people, especially if there's alcohol/drugs involved, that you're having sex because you want them. Not because you want to shake someone else off of you, and not as a form of self harm (been there too). Enjoy yourself, OP, and the freedoms that come with being single.
Who knows? You may end up casually fucking a keeper.
I haven't actually had casual sex and the idea doesn't appeal to me that much but my ex was my first and only sexual partner so I feel like maybe I would stop obsessing over it if I had more experience. I don't know if I want it to push the thought of my ex out but maybe it will put things into perspective.
It's just that people like us get so attached and give our all so when it doesn't work out we don't know how to let go. Thanks for your kind words though and I hope you're in a happy place now.