Drink a cold one with me /adv/
>GF of 2.5 years is moving away
>We both agree we won't do long distance
>Hang out and stuff for our last 3 months together
>She starts dialing back, refusing kissing, holding hands, etc...
>Frustrated me to no end, wanted to just stop
>start ignoring her because who needs that shit
>she starts getting sad and depressed
>I realize what I needed to do....
>Be there for her and let her move on from me at her own pace
>Continue to hang out as I watch our relationship go from warm to her giving me the cold shoulder
>Spend our last hour tonight at her place
>There wasn't any warmness in her smile
>She was on her phone with people wishing her goodbye on Facebook and stuff
>Had our last hug today
>I visit folks tomorrow, she leaves Sunday, so that's that....
Did I do right /adv/?
Just got out of a 4 year relationship. You did right .
The key now is leaving it right. Don't Fuck it up and message her shit when you're drunk. Dial everything back u til you eventually lose contact. Absolutely shitty and heartbreaking to do but if you care about her and her happiness you gotta undertand that blowing up her phone will make it worse for both of you.
Time to focus on you anon.
Iktf way too well man. This post made me feel some shit I didn't want to. I miss her too man but we're gonna make it
Thanks anons. At times I felt like I should have tried harder...that I didn't have to watch our relationship die. I don't know what hurts more, being blindsided by a breakup, or watching it slowly happen...but I did my best in my character
Already deleted her number. I wish you well on your life journey as well
Lemmi finish 1-2 more bottles then I will...gonna embrace the next week as a new free man. Being a man sucks.
Still a bit torn if that was the right thing to do. Part of me feels like we could have been together if I did things different....as I drink I tend to switch over to things I can do to get her back....
There's no point in thinking about the what ifs. You can't change them. Keep moving forward. It's a crazy beautiful thing you did tho. I don't think I could've handled it. I'll take a drink in your honor tomorrow anon.