I was in a similar situation on my other job a year ago, and

You're a slut, and he's not interested in that.
What's the problem?

>>16657941

You sound salty. Like I said, I am interested in having a relationship with him, but I fucked up and thought he wasn't so I offered a no strings attached type of deal. Also, if he wasn't interested in young sluts, he wouldn't be pawing me back then at the party.

>>16657948
Salty about what? Having a wife and a kid?

You gave him the impression of being a slut, offering yourself up for him to use as he wishes "without any strings". This has soured his perception of you. Even though you did it to be nice or whatever, he doesn't consider someone like you partner material after that. Move on.

>>16657929
>Where did I go wrong?
You offered something casual when he was angling for something serious and so he stopped taking you seriously. If you can convince him you're genuinely interested in a relationship, that you were just trying to keep things casual for his benefit with the divorce and all, maybe he'll change his mind.

>>16657957

Salty about women in general.

>>16657963

That is sort of my plan, if only I can get him to talk to me, since we're both swamped with work now. I hope I can get him to understand why I said what I said. Besides, we had a really nice relationship prior to that, we share many hobbies and interests etc etc, I really hope such a misunderstanding can't turn him off of me for good. Unless he was an asshole the whole time.

>>16657967
>misunderstanding

what misunderstanding? You offering up yourself as a sexdoll?

>>16657929

I wouldn't think much of it to be honest.

He is going through a bitter divorce. Who knows why he doesn't want to talk to you now.

> Maybe he wants to try and fix it
> Maybe she cheated on him because his pecker doesn't work anymore. He is too embarrassed about what might happen if he hooks up
> Maybe his wife was selfish and only thought about her needs, and here comes this girl who he thinks genuinely likes him and she comes off just wanting to use him, just like the other woman in his life right now.
> He is a lot older than you. The older men get the less important sex in general is. Frankly I know I am bored of it after 45 years on this earth.

There many reasons why he is ignoring you and rejecting your advances right now. The fact that you turned this into some statement about yourself might speak to you in fact being a little self centered.

>>16658001

I'm fairly self-absorbed, that's why I have to consult a mongolian hawking forum in order to gain some objective insight into the situation. You offered some fairly sobering perspective, thank you for that. :)

>>16658022

Your welcome... so few people are thankful for critical advice so that says a lot about your character too.

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>>16658057

I am really weird in romantic/sexual relationships, because I grew up being fawned over by men - I spent almost 10 years modeling - and then I decided to make a switch into a more sensible career (really boring, involves clipboards) and now I see people reacting differently to my looks in this setting. I am also mostly attracted to homely looking middle-aged fuckups, so I guess there is some underlying entitlement on my part when I get rejected.

All in all, I am a big heap of crazy, but I am working on it and trying to spot psycho patterns in my behavior.

>>16657967

> salty about women
I'm not that guy, but it's very obvious that's the reason.

You have to see it from his perspective, he's been divorced several times and I'm guessing cheating was involved because that's the most common reason. Anyway for a guy to get wrecked like that thrice, it's going to make him more cautious and stop thinking with his dick.

So you, coming in strong and slutty would very likely be a strong red flag for someone looking to learn from his mistakes.