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What do I do now
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>>16657715
Ask her if she wants to hang out some other time instead, you wanna hang out
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>>16657715
Move on and find someone else

You don't see footballers retire after missing one shot now, do you?
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>>16657722
>>16657724
These, OP.
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>>16657715
There are 6 other days of the week. Perhaps they're available for one of the,
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>>16657722
>>16657727
Right away? I'm afraid I'll seem too needy
>>16657724
Is there still a chance though? Does it seem like she is interested or is just letting me down softly?
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>here

Why do you bother?
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>>16657743
What do you mean? I'm looking for advice on the advice board what's the issue?
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>>16657737
if there was a chance she would have suggested an alternate event

this isn't complicated
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>>16657752
Why do you bother with a girl who can't tell the different between here and hear?
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Rape her
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>>16657715
"Did I say Friday? I meant whichever day you're free."
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>>16657756
Does it sound like she's trying to let me down or maybe still interested?

I'm really bad at figuring out what people are trying to say over text
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>>16657791
she is literally letting you down gently
stop talking to her

jesus christ im an obese, ugly neckbeard and i know more about women than you do
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Ah, this reminds me of when a girl led me on for three months. She said that shit twice until she finally said she wasn't interested in me that way.

>mfw I flat out ignored her and now she stares at me and sits next to me all the time, and I never say a word to her
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>>16657814
That's pretty pathetic though.
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>>16657828
It's not autistic if it works. She's pathetic for lying to me and using me for attention.
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>>16657722
>Talk about expectance. My mindset was: it's the girl asking the guy. It's time to get off this board.
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>>16657834
You seem like a passive aggressive lunatic who thought he was entitled to shit. It isn't leading on if she's too nice to tell you off directly.
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>>16657794
Are you sure? Isn't there a chance she just isn't free that day? Or is she just being nice? Idk what good to hear from you and thanks for the invite mean
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>>16657715
Wait a few weeks and ask again
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Say "okay, maybe next time!"
Then wait and try again later, but next time say "when's the next day you're free? We should hang!"
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>>16657854
She didn't, that's the thing.
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>>16657859
you fucking retard listen to that man you have no chance MOVE ON
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>>16657861
This is actually pretty much what I was planning to do but I wanted to make sure there wasn't something obvious I was missing

Since I'm getting conflicting advice here I'm not sure what to think ; /
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>>16657892
Just fuckin' do it RIGHT NOW and if she says maybe or whatever again just leave her. TRUST ME OP.
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>>16657924
Alright I did. Guess I'll wait for her response now.

This is all so weird since I was sure she was into me it's hard to understand if I'm just wrong

I mean it's clear from this thread I'm a social retard but she had done things like make jokes that I'd have a bunch of girls following be around, grabbing my hair, randomly coming up and hugging me (not sure if she was drunk)

Maybe I waited too long and there's someone else now?

Fuck this is all so confusing ;/
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>>16658029
Post result, I shall help.
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I would close the case on her.

If she wanted to hang out she would have volunteered a date you could have hung out.
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>>16657859
nah man, if she was interested she would have suggested some other day
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>>16658093
>>16658263
Isn't it common for girls to want guys to suggest the date since we're supposed to make the first move and all that
>>16658089
No response
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So should I just assume she only wanted to be friends?

Man why's it so hard to tell?

Is it at all possible that someone would say this to someone they might be interested in or am I deluding myself?
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>>16657765
That's so beta.
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>>16657715

don't do anything. if she wanted to do something, she knows the 'door is open' and will message you back.

also, she can't spell or use basic technology ... just say no.
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>>16657715
Skip town , bleach your hair, burn off your fingertips
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>>16658951
You are really in denial, OP. Use the Brad Pitt rule (imperfect analogy, but very wise):

If Brad Pitt (or some other really attractive celebrity) invited her to a movie and she couldn't make it that day, what would she do? Just say "sorry, Friday isn't good sorry"? No, she will not let this attractive guy slip through her fingers and put some effort into finding another day. For example, "Sorry, I can't on Friday, but I'm free Saturday!"

It's over, dude.
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>>16659832
Literally announcing that you have an empty schedule or that you'll change whatever on a whim. Also completely fucking useless because if you don't specify when then it will never happen. It works for me 9/10 times to ask if they want to do whatever that very night, and the 1/10 say they'll be free for it tomorrow.
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