Just wondering what you guys like better?
My hair is a little up to my elbows atm and I was thinking of getting a pixie cut (not a lesbian or a feminist or anything) but I felt like I'd regret it horribly later bc I've been growing out my hair for too long now. So yeah what do you think?
I dumped my gf because she cut her hair. It wasn't only because I didn't like the cut, but it basically changed her, I can't explain it, but she felt more like angsty and aggresive middle aged auntie than herself. And Jlaw is a great example, she looks georgous in long hair, innocent and yet attractive, and in short hairstyle she looks like a mad soccer mom who wants to speak with manager .
Long hair is arguably on of the most important features of a woman, I personally don't think women with short hair (shoulder length and shorter) are attractive at all. Even if the woman would have a perfect body and personality I wouldn't date her if she had short hair, long hair is just so incredibly important imo...
It depends on your facial structure. I had a girlfriend, beautiful with long hair. She decided to get some sort of, I dunno... lesbian-esque short crop cut, and I was Goddamned appalled. Yuck.
My fiancée can pull off the short hair look, or the long hair.
Hate to be that guy, but a headshot picture of you would be a lot of help, and likely get you some accurate advice.
I'm a guy and I fucking love short hair on girls. I've practically never met a girl who I didn't think it made more attractive. I've realized over the years (from reading threads like these, partly) that it's a minority taste, but whatever, guys like me are out there.
It's not a fetish, to be clear. I just think it's a really good look.
personally i'm completely into long hair.
I think i couldn't even date a girl with short hair.
I mean it already happened that i got attracted to a short haired girl, but it's more of an exception
I just love women's hair, i think it's very attractive. Short hair are too boyish to me, even if the girl has a very feminine body and face
But then again it's personal taste, a friend of mine is almost exclusively attracted to girls with short hair. I've never seen him date a girl with long hair
I can like both depending on the shape of her facial features. Jlaw fr example does not look good with short hair.
long hair is fucking gorgeous to begin with. seriously the longer the better. grow it down to your feet and I'd never be able to end my erection.
Like the other anon said, I think guys who prefer short hair are the minority.
I have never found a girl with short hair to be attractive. I do have friends who always end up dating girls with short hair though. It's just personal preference. Don't be surprised if it narrows down your field.
Personally, I prefer long hair.
I don't mind short hair, as long as the actual hairstyle flatters the person wearing it. But while most women do have a short hairstyle that would flatter them, that style isn't always the pixie, which leads to the problem: a lot of women who go for the pixie seem to have forgotten that other short hairstyles even exist, and would have been better served by a different short hairstyle.
My advice: if you want short hair, work with your hairstylist to find a short haircut that works WITH you. If that happens to be the pixie, then great; go for it. But be open to other possibilities: there may be something that works better.
This sounds more like a poll than an actual advice thread.
But long hair always beats short hair. Short hair, aka mom hair, might be easier to take care of but long hair has wider options for styling and just looks way, way better and more feminine in my opinion.
I almost never feel more out of touch with my fellow dudes than when I read threads like this.
Like, I know I already admitted it was a minority taste, but jeezus. I guess I should be grateful women listen to other women and not to men when it comes to fashion choices, or the hair I like would be permanently out of style.
I like short hair in the French sense best, it's cute. But short hair like the OP pic usually just looks butch and unattractive.
An attractive woman with short hair is often more attractive than an attractive woman with long hair. Short hair frames the face better and doesn't hide the ears, neck or anything else, whereas long hair doesn't frame the face as well but does hide some of the face.
So if you're good looking you will benefit from having short hair, if you're not then you can hide your flaws with long hair.
Personally i think short to even shaved head can look better on a girl IF SHE CAN PULL IT OFF. Its not common for a girl to pull it off so longer hair is more commonly good looking than short hair bu not better.
I like short hair but not as short as the hair in the OP.
Pretty sure long hair is a pain in the ass so I like seeing girls with short-medium hair. It's like seeing a girl swimming downstream when society wants her to swim up.
It varies greatly, and has a lot to do with face and personality.
I was very disappointed with my ex growing her hair out. It made her look old and frumpy. It might have just been that I was first attracted to her when she had kind of a dykey lopsided cut. She also didn't do anything with the longer hair and generally stopped slutting it up with me the way she did before.
OTOH another girl I was with had gorgeous long, straight black hair. I would pull her on top of me just so I could run my fingers through it. She got it cut right after we broke up and let a friend experiment on her with hair dye, looked fucking awful. She had full cheeks, so the long hair really set off her features nicely.
Overall, long hair is probably my favorite, but short can be cute. I'm seeing a woman now whose practically got a high and tight with a mop of curls on top, and it's pretty cute on her.
Sometimes the change is nice, makes you see a girl in a different way. I don't think I'd lose interest in a girl because of a new hairdo, it's just a nice aesthetic feature.
Long hair. For the love of god.
The only females that use short hair are lesbians and females that +/- 30 years old, that suddenly feels like their life is over and the need to change something in their life.
I'm entrigued by girls short hair but like not like the type that makes chicks look like dudes. This is the type of short hair that makes a girls sexy.
long is more feminine and gives off a more submissive/soft vibe.
Short is spunky and can indicate independence.
Guys like both of these, but most traditional guys who want to fulfil a masculine role will gravitate towards longer haired women
>Obviously would look better with long hair, which is my point
Some people look better with short hair rather than long hair, others look best with long hair rather than short hair.
Long hair is more youthful.
White Women look a lot older in most cases when they cut their hair.
This can be cute on girls who are actually young (in their 20's) but once you get in to 35-45, the short hair isn't cute and unique anymore.
Also, long hair helps to make a girl look more proportionate. Girls look fatter when they have short hair/have their hair up compared to when they have it down.
Basically- short hair is REALLY nice if you can pull it off, but if you're 95% of women, you end up just looking like a soccer mom
I'm yet to see a girl who with short hair who isn't objectively more attractive just by growing her hair out. Simple man, its more feminine its more flattering, can do heaps of shit with it. all girls can do with short hair is look chubbier and have the same pixie cut
Just makes a girl look more like a girl... To be honest, there is this amazingly beautiful woman where I work, hair down to her hips...
It'd probably break my heart if she got a pixie cut.
Men in general prefer women with long hair rather than short hair. And so do I.
However, this does not count for all women, because some are naturally more beautiful with short hair.
You want to know what is best for you? Go and try short hair.
>My hair is a little up to my elbows
Just like my japanese animes.
No really if your hair is a mess either way than it does not matter what guys like, that is essentially hippy/homeless tier.
However normalfags associate hair length with personality archetypes.
you will more than likely regret it at one point or another.
probably while you're growing it back in.
but oddly enough, you'll also probably think about doing it short again once you grow it back, at some point.
think about it for at least a week.
if you still want to do it, go for it.
i love short hair on girls.
but only if you're skinny.
Long long long! Long hair is so important. Short hair CAN look cute on some girls but long hair is always better. It's very elegant and feminine. Plus it's super fun to get your hands through it when you cuddle and fuck.
I prefer long hair, but short can be cute as well.
Like most said everyone is different. I prefer long. I'm curious about what you look like. I had a gf that had long hair and asked me what I thought about cutting it. I thought that was weird but I guess she valued my opinion. I was honest, I'm not the hurr durr you look beautiful no matter what type but still I told her do what you want.
I'm doing the opposite of OP. I've had short hair for most of my life and am trying to grow it out.
While long hair gives you more styling options, I have to say that the upkeep is driving me fucking crazy. It tangles, it takes much longer to dry, it blows or falls into your face all the time, and shedding is much more noticeable. I'm sticking it out at least until spring, but so far, I'm really annoyed by the inconvenience. I'm only doing it so I can try a ponytail, pigtails, curling it, and braiding it. If it doesn't suit me in a few months, I'm hacking all that shit off.
If being able to do a lot with your hair is important to you, keep it long. If convenience is more important, cut it.
Long hair fags are super annoying and much too vocal about their opinion (which they love to assert as some sort of fact). Go short. We have enough generic long haired girls in the world. And short hair covers more styles than just pixie cuts, there's a lots of qt neck-length and chin-length hair styles.
I think a good guideline to follow if you're shooting to be as universally attractive as possible is to go with your "instincts." What I mean is, we are programmed from birth both from genetic sexual impulses and from the media to know what we should consider attractive.
Of course, some people will always deviate in their preferences, but we're talking about generic beauty here.
Keeping that in mind:
>lightly tanned skin
>long-ish nails (not freakishly long though)
>light make-up (cover blemishes, mascara, bit of eye shadow, lip balm)
>a subtle heel on shoes, don't bust out stilettos unless it's a special occasion. A subtle heel will make ass and legs look better.
Those are some aspects of your appearance that you can control to seem more attractive to the general public. You can take ONE aspect and mix it up to seem "quirky" or "unique," but if you deviate in more than one area it becomes a slippery slope. Just don't go so crazy in your quest for originality that you end up looking like a tumblr reject.
Example: girl fits all the listed criteria, EXCEPT she wears glasses.
Another example: girl fits all the listed criteria EXCEPT she always wears worn-out sneakers (other pieces of her wardrobe are crisp and stylish, however).
If you get a pixie cut, wear glasses, wear loose mismatched clothing, refuse to wear makeup, and make no effort to not be fat, you might feel like a special snowflake, but you're gonna look like a literal clown.
I've always had short hair in some way or another and always wanted long hair. My hair is shitty and I always end up dying it or bleaching it or whatever to make it look super cute. I have a very great look/face for short hair, I'm petite, slim but with boobs and have a very young european look-not american looking- I have really great bone structure and high cheek bones. I get lots of attention and everyone likes my short hair, I wear it well. Very audrey hepburn/winonaesque I've been told.
THIS BEING SAID, I finally grew my hair out down to my shoulders this year and of course, my hair was really shitty so I thought it looked bad (healthy hair in any length is better than shitty long hair) so my bf help me cut it short (practically got a new wave shave and left some on the top)
He mentioned I definitely have the look for short hair
Now I feel so masculine and don't know what to wear. I feel like if I'm not wearing a bunch of makeup I look ridiculously mom-esque. If I wear leather I look butch. If I wear super fem clothes I look like a pintrest wannabe or again, mom in training.
Leave your hair long and experiment with color or cuts. Or cut it short, not pixie. Also you have to be a certain type of person to look good in pixie cuts. You MUST be slim.
When I had "long" hair, (long to me since I've always had super short hair or bobs at the longest) I didn't think it looked interesting and I felt like one of the crowd, not original at all etc. I'm growing my hair out again. I loved the pulp fiction bob I had a while back, definitely looked very chic in black, blue or blonde.
Also short hair means dressing better whereas if you have long hair you can pull of the just out of bed look. If you have short hair and roll out of bed you look like a young lesbian
Ironically one of the best actresses to sport a short cut plays a soccer mom.
I'm cutting it.
With long hair you only attract hetronormative straight guys.
Shorthair: straight guys, genderqueer people, gay girls. Ace people.Intellectuals. Just better people in generally.