what is the possibility that im gonna get dumped by my boyfriend because im his first everything (both 20 years old) and he will want to fuck around and experiment some more before settling down?
Dump him before he dumps you. Take control of the situation. I found that when I was 18-23, I felt like I wanted the commitment and house and family. But when I hit 24, I had it all and realized I wasn't ready for it. I'm now 26 and in the process of giving up all the security and comfort because I am not in love with the guy I'm with and feel like a bird in a cage. I think women take a bit longer to feel the need to sew their wild oats than men, but I would definitely recommend you break up and see what else is out there. Don't be me.
It's guaranteed. You're both still pups and have a lot of growing up to do. I'm nearly 30, and seeing how I was when I was 20 makes me laugh...no way would I have settled down with the person I was with then.
By choking him, he will want more commitment. He loves being put in prison! And or a cage! Just let loose and have fun and see what the future holds. Don't be so needy. You taught me, now teach yo'self yo woman.
I may only bring anecdotal evidence here, but 3 of the happiest couples I know met in high school and have been married since early 20s. my parents met in college at 19 and got married at 21, still happy together.
All of my friends that had broke it off with their sweethearts are now in their mid 30s, live alone, are alcoholics and extremely depressed.
but that's just my experience.
that's just it though. you never know until it happens. there is never certainty, you just have to go on reason and good faith.
if you've judged his character to be someone that won't one day up and decide to be a manslut and drop you, I'd say there's a great chance at future.
i guess i just want to follow my parents. They started a family early. Im not saying i want it right now but i could see a future with him. I wont bring it up of course, i do not want to make him feel suffocated
>sew their wild oats
anyone who says or feels this is an instant no in a relationship for me. you don't just get to be fuck-crazy then decide you're good material for a long term relationship. of course this depends on the person who's judging your character, but if it were me I wouldn't give you the time of day.
sorry but that's just not the kind of person I'm into. maybe you should reconsider your "cage", or one day become a lonely flightless bird with the reputation of a giant slut.