Hello adv, I'm new. I was a virgin until recently, and since last week, I've had sex like four times. It's just starting to not hurt and it's awesome
Last night I was riding my boyfriend, and I went up too high and like squirted???? What the hell
That was weird
I've read on the internet that that's like normal or something, but I'm not very experienced. I didn't orgasm, and he was surprised.
>Am I supposed to squirt like that?
>What caused it if it wasn't an orgasm?
>Also, others can post their general sex questions.
I know I could google this but I want to hear real advice from you people
Could just be vaginal juices forced out accidentally. I wouldn't worry about it, just keep an eye out for it and make note of how you guys are doing it when it happens again.
I have a question for you, though: my girlfriend and I have sex (obviously) and while I come every time, there are times when she doesn't (either because she's been touching her clit and gives up and tells me to just go for it and come inside her, or just because we're doing it doggy or she's riding me and thus she can't reach her clit).
Basically, how enjoyable is sex for you without the orgasm? My girlfriend says that sex is the important part and that the orgasm is just the icing/cherry on top, but I have trouble reconciling this in my mind as this seems impossible, because for me sex without orgasm would be a lot of hard work for no payoff.
I personally can't relate to those kind of girls because if I don't come along with my guy I feel left out. Like I think my orgasm should be a part of sex and just as important as the man's.
I guess that must be what it was; it was just so weird to me. It was everywhere
I agree with your gf. Like, orgasms are great obviously, but afterwards, I just feel exhausted. Maybe that's just me. But after a good orgasm, I just want to sleep. The actual fucking is more sensual to me. Like feeling him is more sensual and important as opposed to my actual orgasm.
No offense to you anon but I've always felt like girls who say that probably have low self esteem and are afraid to ask the man to do more for them. Its polite for a man to make the girl cum, its something he should do if she's going to make him cum too. You have the right to cum just as much as the guy even if it means asking him to do more work.
I read on the Internet that it's literally pee. I am disgusted
I can see why you'd say that. I feel like it's all a matter of opinion, but you could have a point. My self esteem is pretty low, but when it comes to sex,I feel really good. I feel like I have him wrapped around my finger or whatever. And I'm so comfortable with him; the only thing Id worry about is that he won't be able to make come, in which case he'd be embarrassed
But that's never happened; he always makes me come if he tries so i dunno
I don't know where I'm going with this
I have sex at least 2 times a day. I don't orgasm everytime. It really depends on the sex. I love it when he just rams my pussy (which is pretty much always the case). If I don't orgasm, I still feel extremely satisfied/euphoric and I guess you could say "well fucked"
Femanon need you're help.
Going on sex with my girlfriend for the first time both of us.
> I need your personal advice to try not to hurt her and make her first time enjoyable or at least less painfull.
Any practical suggestions in order to make that moment the best for both of us?
(Guy you responded to here) I agree with you, so I feel worried about it and offer to go down on her a lot (guaranteed orgasm for her) but she isn't bothered a lot of the time. Very strange.
Not OP but femanon
Just go slowly and do at least 25 min of foreplay. Make sure she is basically dripping before you take of her panties or for the first time ot will hurt so bad for the girl. Basically just get her really wet
it's not pee. i've squirted before and it's definitely different from pee. i had to use completely different muscles to help myself squirt more, and it didn't smell like pee at all
sex is the most important part for me, and not just because it's practically impossible for me to cum from anything except oral. orgasms are nice, but sex is equally nice. the biting, the spanking, hair pulling, pinning me down. none of those things physically stimulate my clitoris and make me cum, but holy shit they're hot. i'd rather have hot sex that didn't end in an orgasm than just both people doing the most boring stuff that ends with an orgasm and then nothing else happens.
>One with the dick
Kek, yes, that I am. Thanks for the help