in a 2yr relationship with hot gf, she makes me happy, gives me anykind of sex whenever i want.
but i see other girls and want to fuck them. also before my current gf i used to meet up with guys and give them head which i really enjoyed. I've been wanting to give head again really bad.
The urge to fuck young hot girls and meet up with guys and suck them off is getting unbearable.
I can see myself marrying my current gf (I'm 21) but i also have these other urges that i dont know if i should indulge.
any help?
>>16653932
if you can't control yourself. You are not ready to settle down yet.
>>16653938
i see.
what about the moral aspect of it?
I'm readily able to have sex with other girls and meet up with guys, the only thing stopping me is the guilt i would feel for cheating.....
Maybe you should sit down with your gf and talk about your urges. Trust me she will appreciate the honesty and who knows she might be a freak and want to watch or join in. I've been with someone for 2 years now and we are open and honest with one another. If he told me he wanted to fuck someone else I would be down to watch or join in. You know your gf best tho. Hell maybe she will be ok with you becoming a porn star? You get your fix and get paid. Doesn't hurt to talk about it.
Honestly, there's nothing great about "playing the field". You find yourself at age 30 with little free time to date because work is your main social venue and you're scraping up the scum that's accumulated on the surface of the dating pool.
If you meet someone who is marriage material, you stick with them.
op here.
can anyone who has cheated give some input on the guilt aspect of it?
>>16653949
Just fucking break up with her. It's unfair to her. Morally, who cares, as long as you are not hurting anyone. If you split up with her, and least you don't burn any bridges.
But if you feel like you can control yourself, and get over it then stay with her.
>>16654001
I had this internet girl I was really into and chatted with constantly. It was long distance(Wisconsin to Texas) and I also had an IRL girlfriend. One time I was driving home from screwing IRL girlfriend and started crying in my car because I felt like I was cheating on this internet girl.
>>16653932
>any help?
meet guy 4 head and hot gf to head so when young fuck girls u can sex 2 yr relationship
>>16654092
wtf did you just say??????
>>16653932
Just talk to her about it , bring it up slowly, I mean you did say she goes out of her way to please you sexually so she might be cool with you two still being as close as you were before while seeing other people. Just agree on ground rules and you might be able to merry her and have the side action. Or break up. Just don't be an asshole and cheat.
>>16653932