> be me
> 19 in uni
> abundance of easy pussy
> first time in my life getting laid consistently
> have girl I actually care about
> fuck it up
> still get laid consistently
> doesn't make me happy
Is it a pussy move to value companionship with a woman over sex with random women you care very little about?
Yes you are. Fuck everything that moves. That's alpha. No-one likes the guy who turns into the whiny beta more and more while chasing his oneitis, whom he should've rejected a long time ago. And remember, if you do, women will "love" you for it. I'm not bitter or angry. This is science. Ignore it at your own peril/demise.
Ok what is your take on having one main bitch that I hang out with and spend time with then fuck while I keep my side bitches and always look to gain more side bitches?
Personally I value the companionship, but don't value it over yourself. Sex is good when you're attracted to someone, buts it's absolutely amazing when you're in love with someone. Just never put a girl over your own hopes and dreams.
no. ur 19, plenty of people date. you get laid consistently, it gest boring, so date a bit. you will get bored of that, be single again, get laid a lot. then switch back to dating. its normal. avoiding someone you like just cuz other people think you should get laid is stupid, and honestly why do you care what other people think? how does it make you a pussy? and if it does, whats wrong with that? avoiding it just cuz you dont want to be labeled a pussy doesnt change anyhting but it stops you from being happy.
im not saying 'le love conquers all monagymy for lyfe' bs, but if someone makes you happy date them for awhile.
Nah I don't care about being labeled a pussy by anyone. The reason I made this thread is because as a dude I feel like I should just be satisfied with getting laid easily and consistently but it doesn't make me happy. So I was just wondering if there is something wrong with me or are these feelings normal.
Dude I would feel like a worthless piece of meat if all I did was fuck. I'm still a virgin at 19, yes, but I've done just about everything else under the sun with my girlfriend. Loving someone isn't a pussy thing to want. Girls like that shit and the hoes your fucking now are all going to single at 36 trying to hookup at a bar. Don't be like them.
you spend too much time on 4chan and watching bro shows.
there are millions of people dating right now, millions upon millions of them are 19 years old. you know plenty of them. they arent pussies because they are in a happy relationship. just cuz someone acts like a smug bastard while saying he is an alpha does not make it true
The thing about sex with bitches is that when you aren't getting it then sex is 99% of all happiness in your life.
When you are getting laid consistently then 99% of your happiness is everything else in life.
I'm not complaining I love that shit I just want something more. So I made this thread to verify whether or not I'm being a faggot.
I can definitely see some truth in that.
No, but it's kind of lame to even give the tiniest shits what other people think of you for something like this. Do what you want. I personally think that close, loving relationships are the most important and rewarding things in the world. I think that makes me smart, not a pussy.
I don't mind what people think of me. I was more just curious to see if other dudes thought this way or if there's something wrong with me because valuing meaningful relationships over sex is typically a female thing I would've thought.
I think these days it's more male thing lol. Just do whatever you like/think suis you the most. I personally also would prefer someone to spend life with, but finding someone right for that isn't as easy as fast hookups.