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I have a question, /adv/.
I'll keep it short and sweet.

>Gf finds out that I used to watch porn
>she gets mad about it even though I haven't associated with porn for our whole relationship
>Gf has cheated on me before, it was once and I gave her a second chance, since then she's been a completely different person.
>sometimes our arguments get to the point of her bringing up my past with porn (I seriously don't understand why it bothers her so much, but whatever)
>naturally I bring up how she fucked up OUR relationship
>"it doesn't matter, anon. You still did something wrong."
>"yeah, but you did something way worse, so how are you trying to make ME look like the bad guy?"

My question is this:

What do you guys think? If someone said, "hey this guy watched porn when he was younger and before he was in a relationship. This girl cheated. Who's the worse person?"

What would you answer with?
Is this a stupid argument?
Why does she do this sometimes?
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I would dump her just for the fact that she shits on you for watching porn. I bet she doesn't let you masturbate either.
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>>16652045
It's not even about that, though. I choose to not watch porn. She couldn't care less about me masterbating, maybe she has moral objections to porn? Maybe she doesn't like the idea of me getting off to other women. I understand that. I'm cool with that, I don't care.

It just puzzles me.
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>>16652035
>Gf finds out that I used to watch porn
>she gets mad about it

She sounds like a psycho.

Although OP it sounds like you're a little bitch. You shouldn't be made to feel bad for doing something EVERY guy does. This is her issue, not yours.

>What would you answer with
I'd laugh and tell her every guy watches porn. If she made a deal about it I'd walk away. Bitches just want attention. Don't give it to them.
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if she cheated on you, you should break up with her. no exceptions. she's not good enough to be in a relationship with anyone.
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It doesn't really matter who's 'worse', it makes her uncomfortable, just like the cheating makes you uncomfortable. It's just a matter of who will dump who now.

For what it's worth, I agree that cheating is worse. I also think you're a fucking retard for staying with her after she cheated
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The cheater is the worst person. Her being pissed about porn is stupid.
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There's nothing to get here. In the vast majority of cases, women argue purely from their emotions. Your porn-watching history makes her feel bad, therefore she needs to bitch at you about it to make you feel bad and, in effect, make her feel better about it. Her cheating history makes her feel bad, therefore she doesn't want to talk about it and thus it "doesn't matter".
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>>16652058
It's fucked up, desu senpai. Besides bringing up an old problem to a new discussion is never good.
Your gf sounds like someone I wouldn't want to be with.
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>>16652067
It's not even that I feel bad about it, I just don't understand how she can think watching porn is just as bad as cheating on someone.
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>>16652077
>>16652075

These are the two best answers I've received that actually make some sort of sense.
Thanks guys.
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>>16652080
You must of missed the

>She sounds like a psycho.

It isn't. Its not even in the same league.
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>>16652096
I did miss that part, shit maybe you're right.

Alright. I'll probably break up with her lol.
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>>16652102

do it nao, fgt
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>>16652035
This is bait.
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>>16652134
THANK YOU
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>>16652035
>Who's the worse person?"

Why play these morality games? Neither are you are mature enough to be in a relationship, and if your greentext shit is anything to go by, you shouldn't be.
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you shouldve left when she cheated on you, fuck her, if it happened once itll happen again sooner or later.

i might have answer about porn thing. My gf says I can masturbate while watching photos of her, she doesnt like the fact that im getting hard by watching other women, she says its cheating. (im still doing it tho, but shes doing great with her nudes lately, so im faping but not cheating)

but really, its too late now, but you shouldve left her when she cheated on you. im sorry.
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>>16652230
cont. just be a fucking man, make her understand that she should be shameful, dont even get involved in porn thing expecially if u did it before ur relationship.
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