So my boyfriend recently learned how to make me squirt which I thought wasn't possible for me, and I want to step my sex game up to repay the favor. The thing is, he's shy about articulating things he wants because he got this idea into his head at some point that I'd be "grossed out" by his fantasies (even though truth be told, I've peeked through his most intense porn and been at the bare minimum alright with it and in most cases turned on). So it needs to be something technical that will blow his mind the way he blows mine.
I'm thinking I could step my blowjob game up, but I'm having trouble finding tips online that aren't either ridiculous (see: Cosmo) or something basic I already do (see: HURR NO TEEF). I guess what I'm asking is for guys'opinions on what would absolutely rock their world if their partner did it to them out of nowhere. Doesn't have to be limited to blowjob stuff either, that's just brainstorming.
If you think he's comfortable with you sticking your finger up his ass, maybe you could try prodding his prostate while you're blowing him? Tried that with my boyfriend and it blew his mind. Made him come harder than usual.
I'm exactly like your SO.
I love everything that goes on but the sex could use some variety, and truth be told she hates the idea of cum anywhere near her face or mouth, but I really wanna have my gardenhose sucked dry til the last drop :( how can I get her to be not disgusted?
Is it weird that as a straight guy the concept of swallowing is just disgusting to me? My girlfriend isn't complaining about it, and it isn't it going in her mouth that's gross. It's just her sealing it that just plain makes me uncomfortable.
No not weird.
It's a mouth that one day could be kissing your children goodnight.
Imagine if when your mother us to kiss you goodnight and only a hour before she had those lips around the shaft of your old mans dick.
You should try asking him if he's up for anal. If he's not then just deep throat and or if he likes it get sloppier. You said you looked at his porn. Best if you just ask what he wants or what he would love to get.
whoa! how did he do that? i want to squirt to. how does it feel?
on bj's, i guess mastering dt'ing is a good start. then i would say the mental part is a biggie. making eyecontact whilst sucking him off (make sure to rock an awesome eye-make up when doing so). a teasing half-smirk.
moaning and touching yourselfe to get the point across that you clearly are enjoying yourself.
telling him how fucking perfect his dick is and that you adore how he tastes.
don't go all in right away. lick and nibble, kiss and tease. then make sure he's sapping wet all over. a good trick to get your juices flowing is to scrap the tip of your tongue with your teeths. this is just to get started. you'll need that glorious throat-snot to give a real good a messy bj.
focus on the underside. try to not use your hands and just relax your throat to get him in as deep as possible. suck on his tip. let your tongue do some work. let him grab your head and go fast!
play with his balls and perineum, possibly anus.
don't neglect the rest of your bf's body!
i'm sure i can think of more things.
next time he takes a deuce, barge in that bitch, shove his ass off the toilet, grab that fucking turd and smash that shit against your fucking mouth as you moan in delight.
If THAT doesn't tell him you're down to clown, I don't know WHAT would.
Good Luck femanon.