Guys, how would i gently approach the subject of ass play with my Bf?
I know a lot of guys are sensitive when it comes to their back door. I think it's a fucking shame to exclude a part of your own body from
your sensuality/sexuality and deprive yourself from heavenly pleasure.
I'll talk to him about it, but first i would like to know what would be the best way to make YOU open up about exploring your behind.
i already do that. i also play with his balls/perineum a lot when we fuck and he LOVES it.
i grab his ass when in missionary and pull him closer/dictate the pace and rhythm. i grab his ass very low and gently spread it. i'm not sure if he knows that this isn't unintentionally - tehe
i wish more girls like you. I'm a guy and i love ass play but i always assume that most girls will find it weird. just keep teasing his ass area and mention about a g spot being there. he might be into it but doesn't want to bring it up incase you find it strange.
I mean for me it would be a solid "no" but personally I would appreciate the girl being direct about it during a non-intimate situation, and just get his opinion about it. Ask him if you could maybe "experiment" and then you'll have your answer.
I disagree. Last time I talked about rimming with friends, we generally liked it and wished we received it more often.
But it's not really casual as you need to make sure it's clean before.
solid advice. i guess i'm going to go about it like that. i mean, i don't want to shove a dragon dildo up his behind. i just want to play with his ass a bit when we fuck. nothing over the top. and i would like to try my hand on prostata massage. he told me more than once that i'm free to do to his body whatever pleases me, so i guess i just need to make use of that offer.
If you show interest and that it turns you on to see him get pleasure that way, he'll like it. At least that's how I was with my ex. I had no interest in rimming, but once while she was blowing me she asked if I had ever had a rimjob, and when I said no she said she had always wanted to try giving one, so I let her. And she was super into it and thus I developed a love for rimjobs.
My gf and I were doing it missionary and she was squeezing my butt while I was going at it, and slowly inched her finger towards my butt hole and slipped her finger in. Major prostate stimulation.
I immediately came and she regretted it.
i don't get it. i feel very flattered when i make my bf cum in no time.
but i guess there are girls that are bothered - as it seems.
maybe that's because my bf can get an erection after cumming pretty soon again and he also loves oral, i don't feel neglected or anything. i just love to watch and feel him cum.
Nothing. I have no interest in it, nor any desire to try even in the absence of interest. The only way for a girl to find that out would be to ask me directly so that I could give an honest answer in return. It's really that simple.
Build a culture of experimentation between the two of you, i found when my gf inserted a finger when I was on top in missionary and just applying pressure in general to be awesome. Purely from the taboo nature of it all. What's the point of a partner unless you are getting a bit freaky?
i'll bring it up at the right moment to not get a bad surprise.
that sounds exactly like the thing i would go for! i hope he's up to try it. but i'm fairly positive. we generally like to experiment.
As long as you bring it up directly and without judgment, there's no wrong moment. You're also unlikely to get a negative reaction unless he's really touchy about that sort of thing. Then again if he was so sensitive I highly doubt you'd even consider approaching the topic at all.