is this a good idea? finding some guy and practicing giving head with him until i'm good at it?
who's going to turn you down because it's your first blowjob? you're sucking them off... it doesn't matter if you don't know what you're doing, or at least i'd hope not. insecurity about this or other sexual shit is no justification to do something with strangers. the whole idea of sexual interactions with strangers is gross =/
wtf? no op! don't do this! blowjobs are something you'll going to learn very fast. just get a bf, tell hi you never did a bj and to tell you what he likes. he will probably feel honoured to be your first.
Hm, good question I suppose. I've done this a few times ( "straight acting" male ) under the premise that i'm practicing my deep throat skills, or that I just want to give head with no reciprocation. Although I only really do this because I just get homosexual urges that pop up once every couple months, and then right after I do the deed I usually think to myself "ugh, lets not do that again".
I usually only go after older guys that live in fairly nice houses, something about the whole married men who aren't getting what they need at home make them easy targets and it makes me feel safe when I do it.
I get a little self conscious and to be honest, its tiresome to make these guys cum, maybe cause i'm not too great at it or I have no clue really. I've done it 5~ times and i've made them all cum, but sometimes it takes like 40+ mins of constant throating and stimulation, which does in the end make for decent practice, and I do feel like i've gotten better at it.
I wouldn't do it /just/ to practice, if you don't really want to do it then I wouldn't try to grab a random guy off craigslist, if you're insecure about your skills, just do it with someone you actually like, they won't mind.
I don't know how to find a bf. And can't stop thinking about what a boy would taste like and how it would feel on my lips. Plus I want to be good at it if the impossible happens years from now and I find a bf.
i can understand. i got some kind of oral fixation and could suck on my bf 24/7.
however, it's much more enjoyable to give pleasure if you care about the person on the other end of the dick. trust me.
there's an awesome book on bj's that i love. maybe give something with a smaller impact a try first? like finding a bf, reading a book about it? blowing random dudes seems not that sanitary
pic related is the book. it's from a speek therapist that gives detailed exercises to strengthen your mouths flexibility, strength and endurance.