My gf/something let me go today. She is 17, and her parents wouldn't let us be together, I am 23. I didn't do anything with her besides hug her, but we couldn't do anything, hang out, nothing, just text and talk. She let me go because she loves her family and her family is very upset she was with me, someone so old, even though they never met me. I would never hurt her, but she said I am perfect, and she cares about me, but she can't endure the pressure and anger from her family and us not being together together.
I found out I loved her when she told me this, and I broke down in tears in my car, I can't handle it. She was my future, we planned on it...I've never had this sadness before, like my future and brightness all ripped apart from me, so kindly and soft, like suffocating from a pillow. I'm not angry, I'm just incredibly sad :(
How do I move on. i've had thoughts of suicide more then once, and not fake thoughts, like cries for attention like before, like real longing for ending it all. Oh man
Well if you plan to continue to live and to date, you're going to experience more heartbreak. Grow some balls and get over it. She's fucking 17, it's not like you had much of a future together anyway
I feel like I will compare everyone from now on to her. I tried online dating sites but not one girl on tinder or okcupid is interesting to me. Maybe I'm not one for online dating, but I've truly never had so much in common with a girl then I have had with this one. I really thought it was fate. I am such a fool
I say don't go down without a fight. Talk to her parents. Tell them you are crazy about her and you want to prove it to them. They might come around. Any parent would be worried that you are a bad influence or just gonna pump and dump their daughter. Prove me wrong
I think I'm too late for that. I thought of that though, its a last desperate attempt to save it. It hurts knowing there was maybe something I could do...what a sweet girl, she thought the was so horrible for doing this. I hope she finds a wonderful guy.....
When I first started dating my boyfriend I was 17 and we had a similar age difference. Introduced him to my parents when I was 18. Parents hated him at first and disapproved but after awhile they realized how hardworking and dedicated he was to me. They decided to give him a shot, and I'm currently 23 and I live with him. Have you actually had a proper conversation with her parents before? It seems like your girl made up her mind already, and if that's what she really wants then there's not much you can do about it.
Thats beautiful. I'm happy for you, that it worked out. Your story sounds like mine, I am very hardworking and loyal. I just don't think she, at the bottom of her heart, wanted what I had to give. If she does then she is making a mistake. I would wait years to be with her, thats the type of person I am.
I am just so afraid of telling her any of this, I don't want to push her after she's made a decision, but I am dead inside. We said so many things to each other, things Ive never said to anyone else. I believe in God and i thought he might have been guiding me, I guess I play the fool again
Why aren't they interesting? Because they don't allow children on them?
You're one of those people who were a loser growing up and are dating out of your age range because you're too much of a child. It's pathetic, like an 18 year old NEET throwing a slumber party with 12 year olds. Grow the fuck up and start seeing people who aren't children living with their parents.