I just broke up with my GF of one year ten days before our 2 year anniversary.
The reason being that she has told me that she will become a stripper as of tonight.
Am I wrong for this? I have worked at strip clubs and have some knowledge regarding these places. Still I feel really bad/sad/mad.
Just bouncing this off some fresh minds.
Been in your same situation. In my case she ran off and told all her friends I was abusive and controlling. You don't need that kind of shit in your life. You're better off and never doubt that for a second bro.
WAIT WAIT WAIT! OP what are you doing??? Think of all the stripper pussy / threesomes you can get. Don't fuck this up because your have a whittle achy heart. Use your head! And dick!
I can get laid. I do NOT wanna deal with stripper drama at home. I had enough of that shit at the bar and in the parking lot.
She is supposed to be my woman.
No one else's especially not for a fucking paycheck.
>GF of one year ten days before our 2 year anniversary
Just say GF of two years, bud.
But yeah, you're well within your rights. Even the most alabaster cavalier of them all would have to admit that her decision was a pretty egregious one to just dump on you like that.
come back when you are thinking with your logical brain. Do you think a man of self respect would want a gf as a stripper. I would leave such women for crackheads or some low life.
No woman that takes her clothes off for money in public, or does it for free via webcam for hundreds in a chat room, is worth being in a relationship with. Period.
You just know these women will never tell someone they want to get serious with about these things.
The ones that do it for free are lowest-tier, as they crave attention that much.
Avoid such women as if they are diseased, as chances are...
Totally agree. She said I was selfish and judgmental. My rebuttal was that she is pretty fucking stupid.
I would say I wasted my time but I learned some important stuff.
You did, and it will sting for some time, but you will meet a better female. Or, at least, a female that will keep her clothes on in the presence of strange men.
Besides, you've worked the club scene. You know exactly how much drama strippers bring, what they get up to in private rooms, and why they always need to be fucked up.
Best of luck.
If you have worked at strip clubs you probably have more insight into how this would affect you than anyone on here. That said, its a very fair deal breaker and if she isn't considering your feeling son the matter then I don't think you have made a mistake ending things